Reaction when you achieved something after too much hardship
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
India
April 26, 2010 2:07pm CST
Hi,
I have seen there are many talented people in the world who deserve best. But somehow they are not in their deserving position.There are many good people who are passing through bad hardship and they are trying hard to come out of that.
what would be your reaction when you pursue happiness after very long hardship? I dont think so at that time people would only laugh. At that time when person would pursue happiness would be mixture of tears and smile.
I have started this discussion because am passing through this situation and waiting to cry in happiness.
5 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
28 Apr 10
Great you have achieved something. It's worth the tears you shed.
I may not even have the energy to cry initially. It's usually shock! Only when I reflect upon the struggles a little later it's easier to cry then. But when I do I do not want to be seen crying...
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hi,
first i want to clear that "i have not achieved anything" I am passing through that struggling state. But my struggle is not completely shed with tears even between i enjoy too. Because i dont want to be sad all the time, so whenever get time enjoy life without considering sorrow of life.But i am waiting for good job as per my qualification and for that i have been struggling for 10 years.Sometime i feel positive and sometime negative about possibility of getting good job.
Regards
Ranvir Chauhan
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Achieving something after the hardship definitely can make me shed some tears. But of course it is tears of joy as they call it. Nothing could be very fulfilling if you know how much effort and time you have put into it and seeing yourself reaching success. After a lot of failures in our life we always have to see the bright side and learnings that we had out of it. At the end we can always win the battle of challenges in our endeavors. Congratulations to your achievement whatever that may be.
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@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hi,
I thought you are an indian,because your name is like an indian. I think to have mixture of emotions when you achieve after too much hardship is common thing.How person can only smile when he has achieved after too much hardship even nothing was in his favor. That person sometime become bored of this situation and in this time he receives good news accidently then it is but obvious that he couldnt cry or laugh completely.
Regards
Ranvir Chauhan
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
27 Apr 10
Hi. I kind of feeling that I'm filled with all sorts of emotions and feelings after experiencing too much hardship. It might be something I'm longing to pursue or and an expectation I'm looking forward to reaching. Whatever the case, the process can be tough. We need to cope with countless difficulties and challenges before our anticipation comes true. Every day, we're making our utmost to do it, praying that tomorrow will bring a favorable outcome. At last, that day does come. What we've been expecting anxiously all the time is achieved. It's a moment of joy as well as sorrow. We're happy because we finally obtain what we want; we feel sad because we can't help feeling being deprived of that hardship. Perhaps after that, we'll never have to experience too much hardship again. This feeling may make people feel lost.
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@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hi,
When person is doing too much hard work to achieve goal and even nature is also not with him. When everything is going wrong and person only has one thought in mind to come out of this hardship.when he achieved that thing its a mixture of two emotions.When everythig is favourable and person achieve is different thing.During achievement of goal one by one problme come on his way which are demoralizing. So it is very sad situation i think.
Regards
Ranvir Chauhan
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Of course I feel happy after so much hardship but I am also expecting that I am going to have another problem that is something harder. I believe that the problems that we have are preparing us for something bigger. When we are able to solve the our problems, these problems are making us tougher. When we are tough then the problems we are going to have in the future is going to be tough again. These problems I think are designed to make us a better person.
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hi,
hope you will fine.Your response has lot of positivity and it is very good ,very few people can keep this positivity. But i am not that much positive, to be frank.Even when i try to be tough i cannot. I have to think not only about me but my wife daughter, son. so for their good life i have to achieve something best. when i cannot this makes me negative in thinking.
And yes i am agree with your statement than problems make us tougher ann better person. this process is hidden i can feel it sometime in me.
Regards
Ranvir Chauhan
@rhazebustamante (89)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yes, a mixture of many emotions are present once we surpass all the hardships being faced..It's true that tears of joy would roll down the cheeks..I've been through a lot of hardships and triumph...The feeling is so different, victory is so sweet that happiness in my face is vivid, maybe because there's too much gladness that tears are starting to roll down..And once happiness is achieve, expect more battles (i mean greater challenges) to win...it doesn't end that simple...its a process...
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hi,
I dont know what would be my feeling when i surpass all my hardship.So just wana feel it.I realised this topic because i watched one movie 'The pursuit of happiness" and in this movie main character "christopher" at last come out of all his hardship and started crying as well as become too much happy. I felt that when i achieved something better i would have same feelings.
According to your response i think that i would expect more challenges of life.
Regards
Ranvir Chauhan