rhazebustamante

@rhazebustamante (89)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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My First Day at College

cleewlkr @cleewlkr (159) • Indonesia 27 Sep 10

Yesterday was the first time for me to study at college... and the lecturer come late.. she came about 45 minutes later after we're stuck out side the classroom (because we don't know the entrance to the...

university

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rhazebustamante I always remember my first day in college way back.. It's "getting to know each other thing". Where all the students in the class are asked to stand in front and tell anything about yourself. The day ends knowing your classmates and gaining friends even in the...

28 Sep 10

What Scares You ?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 27 Sep 10

I'm less afraid with ghost, but what scares me the most is that someone will break in our house and get our lives. God forbid! What scares you ?

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rhazebustamante My greatest fear is to loose all the persons i love... Coz i do have lots of plans in my life and I always want to share it to them...

28 Sep 10

Born with talent, i'm not hahah

kmaram @kmaram (2533) • Philippines 27 Sep 10

I was born with no talent , i am not a good dancer nor singer. I am not good when it comes to writing or painting what else you mention. I have 3 years old daughter and i can see to her that she love's singing and love...

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rhazebustamante No body is born without a talent..everyone has one or more..Maybe you just haven't discovered it or developed it as well..i love to sing and enjoy the house...cooking and putting things in place....

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Are beaches best place for romance and love

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 27 Sep 10

I could see that many couples in beaches romancing each other. Some would glaze to the long sea, some even go their extreme of love expressions. I hope it gives nice smooth feelings. Moreover in many movies too I had viewed that...

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rhazebustamante It may be a very good place for romance and love because you will always feel the tranquility and the very cool breeze of the place...Everybody has its own best places for romance and love, the important thing there is the presence of that extreme love and...

27 Sep 10

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love by everyone

comment_please @comment_please (338) • Philippines 26 Sep 10

I remember my English teacher in High School. She looks like Princess Diana of Wales! My English 1 teacher in College is like a grandmother to all. She's a loving old lady. My wife is a teacher too! All her students like her. No...

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rhazebustamante Very true that teachers are loved by everyone maybe because a teacher is not just a mere teacher but a second parent to students..Their supervision is not limited only in the four walls of the classroom but extends even outside the school.Patience...

27 Sep 10

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like and love

yomy1984 @yomy1984 (177) • United States 26 Sep 10

I am confused. Is like same as love? when you said, that you like her/him, is it the same as you love her/him? I often say to my friends, yeah i like you, but i didn't say that i love you, why is it that when you say you like...

confusing

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rhazebustamante For me, like is more on the physical attributes of the person. it's like seeing the person in the naked eye. LOVE on the other hand is more of a strong emotion, a special feeling we feel for that for that certain person.

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Is Friendship is the 1st towards love???

magnetizer89 @magnetizer89 (105) • India 23 Sep 10

As everyone says that love starts with friendship... everyone has its own different views about love... so wat are your views towards love.. Do you think that friendship is the first step towards love???

friendship

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rhazebustamante I do believe it is the first step....its somewhat knowing the person, and from then on a very good relationship develops and sprouts to love....

23 Sep 10

Have nothing to say...

qianyun6 @qianyun6 (2066) • China 23 Sep 10

Today, I logged in to myLot as usual, and opened some discussions. But after reading, I suddenly found I really have nothing to say about it. I close it, then open another, nothing difference, I still didn't know what to type....

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rhazebustamante Everybody comes to a point that we really have nothing to say. I too feel that way, there are times that i feel i i have lots of ideas and views to share...but there are times too that i end up reading topics here and logging out without any responses to the...

23 Sep 10

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How do you describe a happy person?

EdnaReyes @EdnaReyes (2622) • Philippines 23 Sep 10

I'm happy but I don't know if people who know me really think I am.I'm happy with my life but some think I still have many things to do before I could really say I am. But I'm happy, honestly I am. Why can't people see me the way...

happy person

how you describe

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rhazebustamante Happiness is totally immeasurable... It's a state of being. Expression may be of help but the sole person who knows how happy he/she is, is you yourself. Happiness may not be all about material things here on earth but its a matter of contentment and serenity...

23 Sep 10

Loving someone without trust? Is it possible?

jramorinD @jramorinD (85) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

Yes, it is possible. You can love someone without trusting him. Been in a relationship and as a matter of fact we've been living together for four years. Gave him all what I got, all my love, trust, all the things that a woman...

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rhazebustamante Hi... I really don't consider it love when trust is absent... I mean, one of the very basic ingredient to Love is trust .... and a relationship won't take that long if there's no trust.. "Unconditional love" as we consider what you are going through right now...

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What is succes for you.

kartiknaiduk @kartiknaiduk (275) • India 16 Sep 10

For every individual, his view towards success is different. Some pople feel they are successful if the become very rich or famous. Some people feel that they have achieved success, when they would have become engineer or doctor,...

success

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rhazebustamante As for me, success is an innate feeling of fulfillment. And i consider my family/love ones and friends a great factor in achieving it... I always make them my inspiration because it drives me to give the best i can in everything i do....

16 Sep 10

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What is love?

antilove @antilove (191) • Vietnam 28 Jul 10

Love exists every second in our life, when we were little, then grow up and get old. So everyone, could you tell me to your consciousness what love is?

love

what is love

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rhazebustamante Hi there!!! For me, love is an immeasurable condition felt by all... It is often showed through fondness and unconditional giving and caring for somebody...

28 Jul 10

How to apologize your friends?

1xiaoweiwei @1xiaoweiwei (176) • United States 28 Jul 10

Sometimes,we all will make mistakes.someone will apologise quickly but others don't know how to apologize is propoly?For they afraid break the friendship again. So have you any suggest to solve problem?Maybe someday we all will...

apologise

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rhazebustamante Asking for an apology won't make us less a person. The very requirement to bring is humility and accept that in a way, we have offended or hurt a friend. A simple "sorry note" with lots of sincerity i think would be a great help. The note will then be the very...

28 Jul 10

Slow People

pholdermomof3 @pholdermomof3 (214) • United States 5 Jun 10

Do slow people annoy you? I get so irritated when I get behind a slow driver. I try to think well they may be old and can't see well, maybe their car is not running good, etc. but I still get upset. At work when we are in training...

people

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rhazebustamante There are times when I get upset but I just bear in mind what I learned from school that every individual is born unique so never expect all people to be of one kind. They may be slow in some things but i think they are better off in other stuff. Just look at...

5 Jun 10

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I love you.

Amber @AmbiePam (96293) • United States 5 Jun 10

I think this is funny. When my dad first started college, he was dating my mom, but she was still in high school. His college was 2 1/2 hours away from where she lived. So when he had the money, he'd use the pay phone at the...

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rhazebustamante hello!!! Way back in college, I have a male close friend who always shares his frustrations about her girlfriend. The relationship they had seem to be hidden since the girl is 4 years younger than he is. So everytime he calls over the phone or sends messages...

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do you enjoy riding a jeep?

annavi23 @annavi23 (6521) • Philippines 5 Jun 10

philippines has this means of transportation called public utility jeepney "PUJ" "jeep" for short. the king of the road! what could be more interesting in it? well, i can say it has been ever enjoyed specially those teenagers...

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rhazebustamante Hi.... Jeepneys have always been part of us Filipinos. Yes, jeepneys are inexpensive means of going from one place to another. There are times I enjoy riding the jeep especially if the weather is not that bad because passengers would not sit in skin-to-skin...

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Your school and not your experience and skills determines your salary

minyat123 @minyat123 (13) • Philippines 31 May 10

I've been teaching for 5 years. Unfortunately, the academy where i used to work closed. So, I decided to apply in another academy. While waiting for the manager to entertain me and another applicant, we talked. She's 21,...

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university

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rhazebustamante That's the sad reality we have to face nowadays. The skills and capabilities we acquire aren't enough to impress our boss. Sometimes, it's not even the knowledge, educational attainment or the institution we graduated that matters. It's the person we know or...

31 May 10

What are the advantages and disadvantages of having a sister?

reco13 @reco13 (605) • Philippines 31 May 10

I am a girl and I have a sister. Most of the time, we spend time together and hang along. We do shopping together, talk about cute guys, watch movies, etc. I can't think of any disadvantages of having a sister. She's a mentor to...

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rhazebustamante Hi... The only thing that annoys me of having a sister is being compared to her especially when it comes to achievements. I must admit she is an achiever and most of the time gets praises. I know my mother is doing it to challenge me to do better but when it...

31 May 10

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"I'm 30, single and lonely..."

desrie @desrie (297) 31 May 10

I just had a very interesting dinner with one of my best friends and colleague today. We were in our third glass of white wine when she suddenly blurted out, " Des, I'm 30, single and lonely.. Help me out..." Mid-life crisis at...

lonely

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rhazebustamante There's nothing to worry about being 30 and single. Life has so much to offer for each one of us. Savor each day and make it pleasurable. You don't have to be in an intimate relationship to be happy. Our everyday encounter with others as well as family and...

31 May 10

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How to deal with envy

clang3104 @clang3104 (86) • Philippines 30 May 10

good day mylotters! just wanna ask about your ways on dealing with envy/jealousy. this can be in any form.

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rhazebustamante Hi!!! There are times when we get jealous with what others have or are capable to do and wish you are in her shoes. As for me, I deal envy in a positive way. Say making it a challenge for me or a healthy competition as may be termed. Striving hard to at least...

30 May 10

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