Born with talent, i'm not hahah
By kmaram
@kmaram (2533)
Philippines
September 27, 2010 1:44am CST
I was born with no talent , i am not a good dancer nor singer. I am not good when it comes to writing or painting what else you mention. I have 3 years old daughter and i can see to her that she love's singing and love to play instrument, so i am glad with her; eventhough i feel that i have no talent at all it's good that my daughter's have something to share and hope she will continue this while she was growing. How about you do you born with talent are you talented person, what's your talent share something.
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15 responses
@mcharney89 (45)
• United States
27 Sep 10
I'm not sure if I believe in natural talent--I don't think very many, if any, people are born with a natural talent for singing, writing, dancing, drawing, etc., all of those things to a large extent are skills with come through practice and dedication, not so much through a natural affinity.
Of course, being people, we are just better and worse at things than other people, but I'm not sure whether that is due to anything innate or our life experiences.
@ramvis5599 (20)
• Taiwan
28 Sep 10
I have a talent in painting, drawing, lettering. Since I was a child I love to draw different objects people, natures, etc and infact I also participated and won in our School's poster making contest. The bad thing is that I haven't develop that talent.I can also sing and dance but not that good. Maybe more practice can makes me better.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there, well there are times that you got your talent because of your family background. I mean if your mom was good in singing there's a big chance that your a good singer as well. And its right also that some talent was just being develop as you are getting older. Anyway, what important is you makes the most out of your talent, practice makes perfect as well so keep the spirit =)
@mcharney89 (45)
• United States
28 Sep 10
Yes, that's very true, kmaram--we have to make the most of our abilities. =D
@CVBDeposoyD (22)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I gues all human has one or more talent you might hurrible on everything but i know you are good in somthing...you'll just haven't discovered it yet. unless your not human. are you sure you are human? just kidding, hehehe.. my gues is your talent is creating wonderful children. so creat more but not to much. good luck on you talent.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hahha, you made me laugh anyway maybe your right being a good mother can be my talent. Now its more pressure to me heheh i hope i can be really a good mother and i can give everything to my daughter. Another child hmmm i doubt but we can never tell, appreciate your comment here =)
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I think you are more of a left-brain person, meaning you are more analytic or logical. But that doesn't mean that you are without talent. You are probably good in science, math or some other subject. Its good that your daughter has an artistic flair, either she got it from her dad or it runs in your genes but did not manifest on you I am a left-brain person too, good thing I have an artistic husband so our boys are both good in math and loves music too
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there, congrats for having a talented boys i mean being excellent in math and in music is something already. They said that if your not good in this particular talent maybe you're excellent in science or math. But i was thinking if i am excellent with that categories and the answer is not so so .. Well, i do good in school but not in math and science =)
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
28 Sep 10
I would not dare to say I'm talented or having any hidden talent although there was a music examiner who commented that I had a hidden talent. Well, I learn music and I was happy that I could play out a song by ear. Besides music, I play badminton. I started learning it when I was about 5 and have been playing it up till now. Ok, kmaram, believe in yourself. Actually everybody has their own kind of talents except that they haven't realize it yet. Now that your daughter loves to sing and loves to play instruments, you can consider sending her to either singing classes or music classes. In that way, you could also find out where are her niches and from there, start to nourish her. You won't know one day, she'll become either a musician or a great singer.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there, appreciate a comment from a talented person hehhe.
Anyway, that's what i want to do support my daughter in everything. I am really blessed because of her so maybe that's the thing i should focusing now be with her and see how she grows up and support her =)
@yeyelee (370)
• China
28 Sep 10
I think at least you were born with the talent that be a good mother,you could act as a guardian,assist your daughter's development.So you should not be sad,i believe there must be something talented in you,but you just don't know,you could ask your friends,maybe they could give you an unexpected answer.
As to me,it seems the situation is the same as you,i find nothing talented.But i think now that i was born to this world,there must be somewhere i could apply my ability.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there, thanks for the compliments, now i should focus with my daughter. maybe you guys right that being a good mother is a talent that i should considered. I believe also that i am here because there's a reason i should just find it and stop complaining, =)
@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
it is not that you are born with out talent at all.... God never created us with out talents...its just that there are someone who are lucky enough that they got talent that is more noticeable than ours.... Good for your daughter that she has those talents you do not have....but in your case, do not say that you do not have talents, because each of us are gifted with such unique talents in this world...
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there,
well i am really thankful that i am blessed with adorable daughter. Not only with the talent He gave to her but also she was also good looking baby. Maybe that's the better things i should do take care of her and support for whatever she wants in the near future. Being a mother is not easy and it can be paid with any amount =)
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
hi kmaram, i believe everyone has its own unique talent. You just have to find it yourself. Once you find IT, you have to believe on it. That way you can develop it and use it. Just like your daughter, she will not be able to believe or develop it if you or nobody believes and appreciate it. Talents are not only singing, dancing, painting or writing,- there are loads out there, so i'm sure you have one or two unique talent that you can be proud of. Happy mylotting!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Sep 10
hi kmaran I cannot draw or paint or sing nor even play a musical'insturment but I can write and love to write. I
have written a lot of poetry, some short stories and tw
novels but sadly I am not pulished. that is my only talent
for sure.Kmaran your outstanding talent is rearing your
three year old daughter and not every one can do that and do
it well.You are sensitive to her needs and that counts as
'a very good talent. so you are not untalented at all.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Thanks for the compliments, that's the only thing i know that i am good. So i'll be focusing on my child. Hope i can give all the best for her, by the way your a good writer wow i wish i am also a writer. If i am maybe i will write my own stories and some poems =)
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I agree with everyone else that you are born with a talent you may not have discovered it yet. I personally believe that I am good at singing and writing. Mainly writing though. I also am very good at decorating and baking cakes. That's about it with me. Maybe you have to look at the small things that you enjoy doing such as taking care of your daughter so that could be your talent. Its in there somewhere you'll find it.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there you're so blessed with so many talents. About the small things i enjoy doing i think its cooking although i don't cook regularly but i know in my mind that i love doing this thing. My favorite to cook was pasta, maybe that's the thing i should develop, well appreciate your comment =)
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
27 Sep 10
Well your talent may be that you will raise your 3 year old to be a great singer or performer. I can see that your are observant enough to see her talents. Thats what you are made for, to bring up your daughter the best you can.
As for me, my sister insisted that I am good at drawing. My teachers thought I write okay too. But I am too occupied with my children right now so I will focus on them first and later i will want to pursue my 'talents' as a hobby.
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi there, you're a talented one for me imagine you know how to draw and a writer as well. Did you that's my talent, i guess i should really focus on my daughter raise her well and support what she wants to do in the near future, now i just realize that being a good mother is a talent i should treasure, thanks to you. =)
@rhazebustamante (89)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
No body is born without a talent..everyone has one or more..Maybe you just haven't discovered it or developed it as well..i love to sing and enjoy the house...cooking and putting things in place....
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Hi there,
well yes they said that nobody was born without talent so does it mean that i really have and don't discover it yet. Maybe one factor is that i was growing with not sociable at all. I mean during school days i don't normally join contest or social gatherings in school. Maybe that's the reason my talent was not develop hmmm, well i guess its not too late for me or if its i hope my daughter would be a talented one=)
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Hi there,
well being a good boss and know how to talk with people is really a talent. That's also my problem sometimes i'm a bit shy talking to others. Sometimes i am not confidence on what i am doing :(
well i wish i am like you having more confident and can face everyone regardless of age =)
@lilmisfit23 (386)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Don't ever think you don't have a talent. You have a talent you just haven't discovered it yet or it is there already but you just consider it as such.
Just think about where you're good at and then think of the reason why you are good at it, then perhaps that is your talent.
Have a good day! :)
@holdingfast (117)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
I think each has his unique talent. Probably not in singing, not in dancing.... Maybe you need to explore your potentials and i'm sure you'll find one, two, or more. Just believe in yourself or maybe you are a person with no visible talent, as you see, but you have good qualities to share with friends and others.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
5 Oct 10
Lol i don't think , you have 'no talent', all are born with hidden talents, as time passes they show up, glad to know your daughter is talented, it is due to your efforts only, keep it up, god bless her..
Thanks for sharing. Cheers.
Professor. .