have you ever been inlove with a friend?did you tell him/her?

@rhodalyn (251)
Philippines
May 4, 2010 8:46pm CST
have you been inlove with your friend?for me,its a yes..its hard because friendship is a great hindrance..I told him what i feel and the sad part is that he just treat me as a friend..:(I know its my fault because i fall for him,knowing that he's my friend..how sad,isn't it?but now im still inlove with him,i just let God to plan everything for what is feel.. mylotters,have you ever been inlove with a friend?does he/she knows it?
3 responses
• United States
5 May 10
I am actually in this situation right now. I have allowed myself to fall in love with my best friend, I fought it for a long period of time however the closer and closer we become I cannot imagine wanting to be with another man. Have I told him? Absolutely NOT lol. Then again we both left horrible relationships w/in the last year, and I do not think either of us are ready to think about commitment to another person. It's a weird situation because we act like we are in a relationship but say we are just friends. Although, I think it's better that way in an odd manner because if we were to build up any type of expectations it could ruin the amazing friendship we have. I do not want to tell in fear of risking damage to the friendship we have, yet I want to tell him because I think he is the most amazing man I have ever met in my life.
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
5 May 10
you're right..telling him will put the friendship in a very risky situation..i just feel bad that the two of you knows that its already more than friends and yet he's still denying..
• United States
5 May 10
personally i did fall in love with a friend of mine actually she is currently my girlfriend of 6 years now she is amazing i am so glad i met her and was connecting with her within the first day that we actually met that was the cool part it was like i met my dream girlfriend (=
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
5 May 10
ah..good for the two of you..hope you will have more years together or even to be a lifetime partner,im looking forward to it..
@mjanakha (479)
• United Arab Emirates
5 May 10
To be in love with a person and not telling him is a great feeling which cannot be written. Its like rose with thorns, lemon with salt, clouds on clear sky.........