Normally nice people can get rather scary when they are angry.

yeah. most of the time, that is the case... i dont know why but the got angry seldom but to the highest level..

lol its very true like this girl i went to school with, she would not bother anyone at all people would pick on her and everything. until she one day decided to completely go off on people. And when she went off she was throwing chairs and yelling saying so you wannna mess with huh huh? and her face was really red. i was scared for myself, even though i didn't even pick on her. lol

Yes i had experience. Not had still have. My room mate she is very quite and nice. But when she angry oh no. Just like a bomb bust. She really become rather scary. But she is very nice. That's why sometime i don't like quite people. But all are not same some really nice.

That's true. People who are nice most of the time are really horrible when he/she getting angry. I haven't come across a person in such temperament but I heard of such things from my friend. The very nice person did scare many of his friends when he screaming and shouting and getting mad. I'm afraid the situation has reached this nice person's limitation and brought forward the outbreak of his inner feelings all of a sudden. Have a nice time and happy mylotting!

You can't see people calm when mad. That's normal to all, that when your angry you can't control your temper. Everything will just burst and bad words comes out in your mouth that you don't care about the people that hear it. So, nice people really scary when angry and its normal.

hii megamatt, yeah, i think i got the point... person who looks so nice suddenly can change into the tiger and we just think O My Gog is it true what i see... but, it is very normal that someone can get angry, when someone angry he/she forgets who they are, and just get mad like someone we do not know. we, as his/her friens should give an advice but wait untill he/she not angry. petty scarry when someone we know so patient,nice but suddenly angry, so scared.

I am very much like that myself. I am such a calm person and I always let things get extreme before I blow my top. However, when I blow my top everyone around me had better watch out. I don't often get that way but when I do most everyone backs out of my way.

We have a few long time customers where I work who are the nicest people normally but apparently have a really vicious temper if something/someone rubs them the wrong way. I'm always shocked to hear that about super nice people but I guess it stands to reason. I think a lot of the time it's not so much that they're worse than other people when they're angry as it is just such a contrast from their usual demeanor - it seems worse than it really is. Now when I deal with those irrepressibly chipper people I always wonder what it's like when they're mad!

I think this is just a matter of usualness. the things which we dont expect to be like others when they do we surprised. that is a simple and easier way to think towards these things. i think the same is with people. we dont expect them to be angry generally and when they get angry they seems not good and we feel scary.

Nice people are also human beings, they have sentiments, feelings, so when such people get angry, they become scary, uncontrollable too. I had a fellow professor, very cool normally, but if you see him in anger?OMG he behaves as a mad man.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof

This, to me, is true. I know a lot of nice people who are scary when they get mad. I even want to cry when they scold or get mad at someone else, that's how scary they look. I think this is because, we just get used to their niceness and patience that we get really shocked when they get mad or scold someone.

Well I can personally say that I am one of those nice people that you don't want to cross I can be sweet as pie, but when I don't agree with something watch out. case in point I was enrolled in a debate class and the topic was "Welfare" I was on the side that was for making mothers on Welfare obtain a job in order to receive the funds. Lets just say at the end of the class no one liked me because I stuck to my point of view that I work, pay taxes and I feel that nothing in life comes for free and so they can work just like I can. My teacher felt that I did a great job and offered me a position on the debate team. In my eyes when I get angry I just can't help myself... Crazy and Scary there is no control. Well California ended up passing the law anyway called Welfare to Work and there are a lot of people that still fell they should get the money without the effort. Hey I know that I love my job and sometimes I don't feel like going but I have to in order to pay the bills....Okay I'm getting started....Beware of the nice smile and great charm it gets you every time...:)

I am a person who is angry on a lot people but I do not show it. I am level headed I do not lose perspective when I get angry. being passive is what makes the difference. there is no risk that ill act violently. unless something serious happens ill rather make a schemes to get revenge.