Do you ever feel like people are laughing at you ,

Hi jugsjugs, I would rather have people laugh with me and not at me. Take care Snow

i dont have any room in my life for people like this. so no.. i dont have the problem. sounds to me like you might need a new class of friends *nod*

I have had that happen before a few times people that I thought were friends going and running their mouth about me behind my back. I have also had people laugh at me for no reason and then when I ask what is so funny they have said nothing.

It is hard to have backstabbing friends. One cannot have peace of mind when friends talk negative and laugh at you behind your back. This seems like an epidemic, especially the nature of humans is to gossip. In a conservative country like the Philippines, most people don't confront others. So the tendency of these conservatives is to talk to others about a certain person. Mocking other people behind their back is on the same level as gossiping. Though it is more immoral and inappropriate, one still does the act behind another's back. The best way to cope up with these incidences is to be strong. Confront the person so that the person could stop or, if possible, change.

I get that feeling sometimes. I have some shady friends, who would probably do a lot of things behind peoples backs. I try to give them a reason to laugh with/at my front most of the time. That way, when they do laugh behind my back, it will most likely be because of what I said earlier. Flawed logic? Yeah, but that's my specialty.

yeah i have people that laugh behind my back i call those "HATERS" and those people i ignore them because if they were my real friends they would never laugh behind my back but don't worry their are some decent people in the world so don;t worry about those haters

Well i hope so I am a pretty funny guy...in my mind...LOL

jugjugs oh I have been there and finally I let them have it, I said,well at least I may be plump but at least I am a legal citizen of California and america, then I walked off .these Mexican ladies did not laugh behind my back again. they are cowards so tell them off and they will run off. They tried to pretend friendship but I just ignored them.

Yup, people like that are noooooo goooooood. Just all around bad news. Two faced and all that. I do my best to stay away from people like that. They think they are so cool and smart. The funny thing is that people like that have friends like that, which means that chances are very great that their so called 'friends' are doing the SAME THING behind their backs and I find that so funny and ironic everytime I think about it, it makes me laugh. Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija

I using quote what you don't know won't hurt you. Its better you don't know and don't even think about it. It only make us depressed, because they laugh on us or not is not making difference in our life, remember they don't now how its feel to be you. We must love our self more than others.

Hello jugsjugs, that is backfighting and it's not really good. Sometimes we do felt that way, people were talking about us but when it does to me I don't mind it at all as long I don't hear my name. Else I will really confront you face to face. Better you talk to me truthfully than talk behind my back. I have my own life, my own action and we should always believe in ourselves. If you think that someone's talking about you why not confront them than just fear, feeling guilt by yourself, tendency you will feel very self low-esteem.

Well, I know that kind of feeling and I somehow feel the same thing if I'm with friends whom I can't really trust that much. It seems that they can stab you at your back at any time they want, those who were using some sort of mask that is good when your facing them. We have a lot of things that can't be controlled and I can't do anything about it if they were used to laugh me behind. When I feel that there laughing I just simply keep silent and check what could be something that's funny like if someone's playing pranks on me.

Aww. I'm trying to avoid those kinds of people and it's difficult to find true and good friends. I'm contented with the friends I have right now and I believe they are friends for keeps. Thank God I found them. I don't like being plastic with others so I expect them to be true with me too.

yah. i felt that. it really hurts badly, espaecially if you treat them like a good friend. thats what you call plastic people. & i hate it.

Hi jugsjugs, Yes I know people like that but I find that they also have some good points. They do make some people very uncomfortable and why they act that way I don't know but I guess that's where they are at right now. They will eventually change. In the meantime there may be things about us that they don't like. That's life and the only person we can change is ourselves. Blessings.

i really hate to know people are laughing at me, behind my back. i don't feel at ease with it. just like snowqueen have said, i'd rather have people laugh with me but not laugh at me.

I used to feel that way all the time. Still do in the throws of a panic attack. It has to do with your self esteem. You will find that as your self esteem builds the laughing ceases. And when it comes down to it- Who cares! If they want to laugh, let them! And sometimes it is just all in your head.

I use to get very upset about this, when I was about 14 and then I made up my mind that I am not responsible for how others behave and learned to ignore it. Now I am glad that I can offer them some entertainment in our stressed out days. So Belssings and have a laugh on me.

Of course I do! It is sad that some people feel it is something they need to do in making fun of others!

Its easy to know if a person will laugh behind your back. Does that person laugh about others with you? If so, well they do about you also. I wouldnt be friends with such a person. Who needs that type of people. Hope you do have true friends, THOSE we need!!