let go, if it is hurting one or both of you
By trinee
@trinee (514)
Trinidad And Tobago
May 20, 2010 8:24am CST
Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your relationship is hurting one or both of you or would you hold on just because you want to be in a relationship with this person? If it is hurting me or my mate and he does not want to be with me then I will let go.
4 responses
@karen1969 (1779)
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20 May 10
It is hard to say. Some problems are just minor and soon they are over with and forgotten. Other problems become bigger and more important. If you are unhappy in a relationship and really feel your life is bad, then it may be better to split up.
@karen1969 (1779)
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20 May 10
It depends how bad it was, as well as on practical circumstances - where you lived, if you live together, if you have shared bank accounts, if you have kids, etc. If you are being hurt physically, then I think you should leave a relationship straight away though.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
20 May 10
Hi, of course if one party is willing to go or no more feeling then you have to let him go. Nothing can hold him either... even a married couple.
I would stay in the relationship if my lover still love me... my love had been through many things and it was hurt so bad but no matter how many time I wanted to go... he still hang on to me... so I think love and hurt always comes together, the only thing you can save this... work it out, fine the problem and fix it.
@trinee (514)
• Trinidad And Tobago
20 May 10
Yes, it is one thing is the love is still there between you, but you are going through a rough time. If that rough time turns into months and years and are happier when you are not around that person then that is something to look at. You must first be willing to identify the difference between the two situations. Thank you and have a good day.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 May 10
You're right. Sometimes letting go is the best solution. The problem why it's hard to let go is accepting the fact that the relationship is over. It's hard to accept something that started as something good and went bitter afterwards.
