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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 21 May 10

Being in a relationship can be wonderful and fulfilling. However, some people get so caught up in it that they lose their identity. They stop doing many things that made them happy, to be available whenever their mate needs it....

relationships

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trinee Well that is the tricky part; learning to strike that balance and give of yourself and to yourself as well. Knowing when to give, is what will make the difference and your partner has to know, understand and respect that while you both support each other in a...

21 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 21 May 10

Being in a relationship can be wonderful and fulfilling. However, some people get so caught up in it that they lose their identity. They stop doing many things that made them happy, to be available whenever their mate needs it....

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trinee Indeed. I have had to learn how to balance things in my life and you are right in that when we lose sight of who we are, we end up blaming the other person. To love someone is great but I don't think that it is healthy when you lose yourself in a relationship...

21 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 21 May 10

Being in a relationship can be wonderful and fulfilling. However, some people get so caught up in it that they lose their identity. They stop doing many things that made them happy, to be available whenever their mate needs it....

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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 May 10

Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your...

bad relationships

hard decisons

love

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trinee Would you make the first move to end the relationship or would you wait to see if your partner would?

20 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 May 10

Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your...

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trinee Yes, it is one thing is the love is still there between you, but you are going through a rough time. If that rough time turns into months and years and are happier when you are not around that person then that is something to look at. You must first be willing...

20 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 May 10

Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your...

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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 9 Aug 09

Have any of you used Lamisil before? What are your feelings about this antifungal drug? My cousin has to use it but she is concerned about the side effects espcially concerning her liver. I am not reading about it but I am not...

lamisil

medication

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 22 Jun 09

I hate when people are late for a meeting and have me waiting especially after they decided on the time for us to meet. They don't call to say that they will be late and give some flimsy excuse for their tardiness but you can just...

pet peeve

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trinee Smoking irritates my sinus, so I get upset when people come around me while smoking. They see the look on my face though and they understand clearly LOL.

16 Jul 09

larish @larish (2213) • Philippines 15 May 09

I always wear my slippers on but my husband prefers to have barefoot while inside our bedroom. He told me that it relaxes him and jokingly tells me the he is preserving his slippers because he don't want to worn it out. I...

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trinee Yup.. I wear slippers in my bedroom all the time. Like to keep my feet clean as much as possible.

9 Jul 09

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jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 8 Jul 09

I am feeling very isolated at the moment.I have a son who runs off and kicks off for no reason.He throws chairs tables etc for no reason in school and is the same at home.I am always on edge just incase he starts up where ever we...

children

happiness

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trinee Hi Jugs, I hope you are doing okay today. I know you have a lot to deal with but hang in there and know you are not alone. We may not always understand what you are dealing with but we are here to talk to and be there in whatever way we can. I actually just...

9 Jul 09

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 8 Jul 09

It is Mango season and we have so many of them at home. So I have decided to try and re energize my sluggish digestive system and I am going to have fruit for breakfast with one slice of bread and lots of fruit for lunch....

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trinee Hey Cynthiann, what kind of mangoes do you have over there. I am having rice and peas today with chicken for lunch. I have been storing some Julie, starch and some other kind of grafted mango in my bedroom because I don't trust those folks at home to leave...

9 Jul 09

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Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 7 Jul 09

I don't care if anyone responds or not, I have to do this! I started the FIRST discussion when Michael Jackson died! And I have to end it! I watched the Memorial Service and it was gut wrenching, at least to me! If you care to...

gut wrenching

nice things to say

saying goodbye

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trinee Opal you too sweet and funny LOL I watched the memorial while juggling work and trust me, work chose to be very busy on that day! Boo.. nonetheless it was a beautiful ceremony and I have to say that those who stood out for me were Stevie Wonder, Brooke...

9 Jul 09

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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

working alone

working in groups

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trinee You have a point in someone being there to have your back, providing they are reliable because you can have someone working with you but you it's like you are alone. When you don't have much to do and you are working by yourself, it can be boring but when you...

8 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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trinee Yes.. the gossip and bickering can be a strain when you are working in a group. I is not lonely when you have a lot of work to do and it can make the day go by faster. I am okay working alone but if I had a group of people who were reliable and had good...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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trinee Well I would not say that you won't interact with anyone. That is not always the case because sometimes you do, it's just that you are getting the job that by yourself even if you have other people who may provide support in some way.

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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trinee It can be a lot of work when you have to do it by yourself depending on what you are doing and the hours can be long and stressful. I have had to work in groups before and when everyone does what they have to do things can go smoothly. However when one person...

7 Jul 09

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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Working in a group does allow you to learn from each other and learn together and you can form some lasting bonds when you have or can create the right kind of chemistry. There are times though when those people in the group can set out to undermine you and...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Well for some people working alone can be boring and for others they prefer to work in a group. I respect either way. My jobs required that I work alone. it has always been that way so as I was saying in my post, perhaps it is why I have become so used to...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

Have you ever wanted something really bad, even fought tooth and nail to have it and when you did, you lost that interest for it? Why is that? Even worse it was not what you thought it might be. It has happened to me a couple of...

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trinee You know what... keeping a positive mind is a good thing and understanding that whatever happens you are going to be okay. I have also noticed that when you don't appreciate the things you tend to regret it so that is something that we must always pay...

6 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

Have you ever wanted something really bad, even fought tooth and nail to have it and when you did, you lost that interest for it? Why is that? Even worse it was not what you thought it might be. It has happened to me a couple of...

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trinee Well..a back up plan is always good even though you try to have faith in what you really want.

6 Jul 09

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