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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 21 May 10

Being in a relationship can be wonderful and fulfilling. However, some people get so caught up in it that they lose their identity. They stop doing many things that made them happy, to be available whenever their mate needs it....

relationships

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trinee Well that is the tricky part; learning to strike that balance and give of yourself and to yourself as well. Knowing when to give, is what will make the difference and your partner has to know, understand and respect that while you both support each other in a...

21 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 21 May 10

Being in a relationship can be wonderful and fulfilling. However, some people get so caught up in it that they lose their identity. They stop doing many things that made them happy, to be available whenever their mate needs it....

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trinee Indeed. I have had to learn how to balance things in my life and you are right in that when we lose sight of who we are, we end up blaming the other person. To love someone is great but I don't think that it is healthy when you lose yourself in a relationship...

21 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 May 10

Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your...

bad relationships

hard decisons

love

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trinee Would you make the first move to end the relationship or would you wait to see if your partner would?

20 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 May 10

Relationships don't always work. Sometimes it starts off with a bang and then gets cold. Other times it starts of rocky and you both learn to work with each other and things become stable. Will you let go if you realize that your...

4 responses

trinee Yes, it is one thing is the love is still there between you, but you are going through a rough time. If that rough time turns into months and years and are happier when you are not around that person then that is something to look at. You must first be willing...

20 May 10

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 22 Jun 09

I hate when people are late for a meeting and have me waiting especially after they decided on the time for us to meet. They don't call to say that they will be late and give some flimsy excuse for their tardiness but you can just...

pet peeve

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2 people

trinee Smoking irritates my sinus, so I get upset when people come around me while smoking. They see the look on my face though and they understand clearly LOL.

16 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

working alone

working in groups

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3 people

trinee You have a point in someone being there to have your back, providing they are reliable because you can have someone working with you but you it's like you are alone. When you don't have much to do and you are working by yourself, it can be boring but when you...

8 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Yes.. the gossip and bickering can be a strain when you are working in a group. I is not lonely when you have a lot of work to do and it can make the day go by faster. I am okay working alone but if I had a group of people who were reliable and had good...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Well I would not say that you won't interact with anyone. That is not always the case because sometimes you do, it's just that you are getting the job that by yourself even if you have other people who may provide support in some way.

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

20 responses •

3 people

trinee It can be a lot of work when you have to do it by yourself depending on what you are doing and the hours can be long and stressful. I have had to work in groups before and when everyone does what they have to do things can go smoothly. However when one person...

7 Jul 09

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trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Working in a group does allow you to learn from each other and learn together and you can form some lasting bonds when you have or can create the right kind of chemistry. There are times though when those people in the group can set out to undermine you and...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 6 Jul 09

There are some people who prefer to work alone even when they have to work in a group and other times people want to work in a group but they have to go at it alone. I like to work alone. Maybe because all of my jobs required me...

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3 people

trinee Well for some people working alone can be boring and for others they prefer to work in a group. I respect either way. My jobs required that I work alone. it has always been that way so as I was saying in my post, perhaps it is why I have become so used to...

7 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

Have you ever wanted something really bad, even fought tooth and nail to have it and when you did, you lost that interest for it? Why is that? Even worse it was not what you thought it might be. It has happened to me a couple of...

3 responses

trinee You know what... keeping a positive mind is a good thing and understanding that whatever happens you are going to be okay. I have also noticed that when you don't appreciate the things you tend to regret it so that is something that we must always pay...

6 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

Have you ever wanted something really bad, even fought tooth and nail to have it and when you did, you lost that interest for it? Why is that? Even worse it was not what you thought it might be. It has happened to me a couple of...

3 responses

trinee Well..a back up plan is always good even though you try to have faith in what you really want.

6 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

Have you ever wanted something really bad, even fought tooth and nail to have it and when you did, you lost that interest for it? Why is that? Even worse it was not what you thought it might be. It has happened to me a couple of...

3 responses

trinee Hey Opal.I know what you are talking about. When I want something I cannot get it out of my head and I can go at it. A lot of the times I have been disappointed even though sometimes I was very satisfied. Patience is a virtue and sometimes we just need to wait...

6 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

You meet someone, become attracted, fall in love and then it comes; time to meet the parents and family. Sometimes you hit it off and sometimes you don't. That first meeting can be nerve racking though...because you want them to...

4 responses

trinee You knnow what.. it can be difficult at times but you take it each visit at a time and you go slow with simple chats and smiles. I can understand where you are coming from but I hope that you will continue to give it a chance. it can be nice when people are...

5 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 5 Jul 09

You meet someone, become attracted, fall in love and then it comes; time to meet the parents and family. Sometimes you hit it off and sometimes you don't. That first meeting can be nerve racking though...because you want them to...

4 responses

trinee oh yes.. well in a case like that you would feel very comfortable because you already had contact with his Mom which must have been very nice. So it felt like you were going to see a friend as opposed to meeting "the family". It was a nice that if your hubby...

5 Jul 09

trinee @trinee (514) • Trinidad And Tobago 3 Jul 09

If you strongly believe that a friend or relative is heading down the wrong road in their life, would you speak out and tell them even if it means that they would turn their backs on you? It could be as simple as they are wrong in...

friendship

honesty

relationship

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2 people

trinee If what you meant was that it is okay for someone to point out your challenges but when they use it against you like telling other people about it to make you look bad then I can understand that. It is not nice to do that at all and you don't feel the support...

4 Jul 09

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