Do you mind other people sitting on your bed?

I don't really like anyone else but myself to be on my bed. And I don't like people who didn't shower just before to go on my bed. I can be quite particular about this. :D Love it that my bed is just mine, and mine alone.

Well I generally dont let people who I dont know that well into my bedroom. And those who I know, and am sure of their cleanliness are allowed into my room. But I do put on a bedcover over my bed and the linen. So even if they do sit on it, I just take it off at night and vola have a clean space to sleep at night.

I know alot of ple, doesn't like that, but not for me.. haha =D I guess the bedroom is one private room, which most wont just anyhow invite anybody in it.. Even when i'm in my friends house, even for guys, i wont be sitting on the bed anyhow.. haha =D One of my friends even said to him, " the bed is meant for sleeping, how u expexct me to sit on it".. lol =D When i heard that, i was kinda shocked, because of the way he said it.. haha =D

I wouldn't want people to be sitting on my bed either unless invited and I think by you letting them in your bedroom you are kind of inviting them, aren't you? If you don't want people to sit on your bed then you need to put in a couple chairs. And then when they are in your room, indicate to them that you would like them to sit on a chair by showing them it by gesture and asking if they would like to sit down. Or you need to tell these people that your bed is off limits and no one is allowed to sit on it, plain and simple, and if someone gets upset about it then they need to be told they need to respect your decisions. Good luck with this.

I guess it fine with me when people just sit on my bed, as long as they're not sweating and filthy (that's gross!), or they just don't put their feet on my bed, that's absolutely fine. I have a friend who's also a neat freak and every time somebody comes inside her room, she would warn him not to sit on her bed or else will definitely gonna freak out.

i wouldn't mind at all only certain people are allowed into my room. everyone else is limited to the living room area only. so if someone is allowed into my room, then they're also allowed to have a seat on my bed but then, my bed is a loft bed. so they might have a bit of trouble getting onto it in the first place

Yes I do mind.Bed is a very personal thing and I never liked strangers sitting on it.In fact it never happened in my life time. But it is a different story with the kids of my niece when they come from abroad for their annual vacation.The used to leave the 'B E D' as 'E D B' as they leave.Can't help it.Can I?

Hi, poohgal. My grandmother is the same way too. She does not like when someone sits on her bed either. I guess it is because someone may mess the covers up or break something on the bed. My kids can sit on my bed, I don't mind. But when it is cleaned I don't like it when anyone sits on it. My kids love to play on the bed, and I have to tell them not to do so. But if I have guests, I don't want them to sit on my bed at all. That does not look so hot, you know...

I am not very particular about my bed. I am fine if any of my friends or family members want to sit on my bed. My husband even let his friend's dog stay in our bed the whole day when I was at home. I am sure that you won't allow that. He said that the dog doesn't shed hair and so it is fine to keep the dog in the bed. I honestly don't prefer that.

I think my issue on that matter is not much on the cleanliness side but more on the invasion of my space. There are people that I don't feel comfortable sitting or sleeping on my bed. If the person is close to me, I wouldn't mind but if someone is still on my bed when i am sleepy, thats when i start getting edgy.

Ah I was more or less like that when I was a kid. I wouldn't let anyone sit on my bed. Not even my father or siblings. I would ask my mother to change bed sheet everytime someone sits on my bed!!! Now I have changed for the better. I am just particular that any one who sits should be clean, wearing clean clothes and definitely very clean feet. Whenever my husband's friends come, I change bed sheet as they and their kids hop on to the bed without clean feet...and kids sometimes with shoes on!! I do not blame kids but their mothers who let them do that. If it were me, I wouldnt have let my kid do that.

Hi Poohgal I feel the same way you do I don't like people sitting on my bed especially after I make it up and just like you he only people I allow to sit on my bed is family members and they have to sit on the end of the bed not up by my pillow (after all I lay my head on those pillows don't want any butt prints on my pillow After all I don't know where they been sitting before they came to the house

well, not really. it depends actually. if they sit properly then yes i guess its ok. but if they lounge around like they don't care then i get a bit irritated. i'm kinda a neat freak too, though not that much! cheers and happy myLotting!

I too agree with your view. It is not good to sit/use others bed, specially if yuo have skin infection like fungal rashes. But in some places like hostel it is not possible. When your friends come in, they sit or sleep on our bed.

My bed is special....my room is special. I have a water bed and as they are not fashionable now they are a bit of a novelty. People don't just wanna sit on my bed, they want to lie down to try it and I encourage that. It's waveless and easy to sit on as it does not seem like a waterbed to look at. For my girls and granddaughters to come into mty room they know they are in for a treat. They get to go through my clothes and jewellery and usually, someone receives something. It could be a garment, a brooch, earrings or a ring. If someone feels unwell they get to rest IN my bed and that is truly special. It doesn't happen often but the times it has the kids have slept for several hours and woken refreshed and well. I'm very happy for people to sit on my bed...everyone is welcome...pets too!

I guess I don't really mind people sitting on my bed. It would b nice if they asked first but I'll probably say yes anyways. My bed is the one closest to the door and there are no chairs besides the one at the desk and whenever my roommate's friends visit, they always just sit on my bed. I'm a little sloppy so I don't mind that much.

Yes,sometimes it can be irritating if someone sits on my bed.I don't even allow my sister to sit on it unless it's really important.Ofcourse when someone already sits I don't ask him to get out because that would be too rude but it does irritate me.lol

If I invite someone over like a friend or guest, I would not have them sit on my bed but I would have them sit on a chair, which would be the most appropriate thing to do. I wouldn't let visitors sit on my bed because it's not appropriate for me to do that.

No this is not a big problem for me. I also like being a clean person. But some time we should compromise to support others and for being mannered. There are some cases when they are very tired so even i have to give them my bed to sleep. So i know the states what could arise in different situations.

Have you ever lived in a single room which serves as living room, bed room, study room, dining room etc. I have lived like that. We can never say dont sit in the bed because we dont have any other space to make our friends sit. 40% of the people lives like that only.