The Me I want to be

United States
May 22, 2010 5:08pm CST
Do you have an image of yourself that you one day want to be? I keep seeing myself as this skinny pretty girl but it's hard to do and be.. so what do you do to be that person you want to be?
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@Krysiana (88)
• United States
22 May 10
I just want to be a good mom. My son is almost 6 months old, and ever since I had him, that's all I've wanted. I think sometimes I over worry, but I just want him to be healthy and happy. That's all. I would love to better myself for the sake of my child. Better education, so I can get a good job, so that he can be proud of me when he grows up, and so that I can give him everything he needs.
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• United States
22 May 10
I know what you mean.. I have 2 baby girls and a little boy on the way.. and my mom was not the greatest in the world... and turning into her is something that I fear... as for education to make him proud of you I don't believe that you need that.. I think if you just work hard with what you have then he will always be proud of you... My father had a great education and that is not why I loved him or look up to him it is because he was always there for me to help.. to give advice and to scald me when it was neseccary.. and I respect him very much for those things I could care less if he had a degree or not
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• United States
22 May 10
You are right. Both my mom and dad didn't have an education, and I love, respect, and cherish them. They still managed to give me everything I ever needed. Congratulations on your little man in the making :) Motherhood is so amazing, I'm so happy to have finally joined the club, lol.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 May 10
hi LillyBelleDaisyRose I am a senior citizen , a woman, and I want to be the best person I can be, look attractive, and sound intelligent, and have poise and be good humored. So what I do is try to help anyone I see who asks for help or needs it. I try to smile and to be cordial to whomever I am around, and I also try to be clean and look as good as I can. Right now I need to lose weight so badly so have to tackle this but its going to take some time to do it ask my doctor says do not lose over six pounds a month.
• United States
22 May 10
I applaud you. You sound so nice and comforting.
@med889 (5941)
25 May 10
I want to be like the woman of the District Attorneys, I am a law student and when I see those women I just want to be like them. Pretty in the robe and wise in the court.
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• United States
22 May 10
The image I have of myself is someone who is patient, understanding and not critical of others. I was not any of those 15 years ago and over time I have had to work on myself. You are not always there to be the person you want to be, as I like to leave room for improvement. But I like me, expect the best of myself, and feel that I am where I want to be. I am not an overweight person, but I have never been critical of overweight people as the ones I have met are beautiful people inside.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
I have always wanted to be even taller and a bit thicker..hehe. I can't do anything with my height now, what i do is just love being me and thank God for giving me what i have now. God made me petite for a reason so i think the only way for me to do is accept it and love it.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
I always wanted to have a fairer complexion and a slimmer long legs.., narrow waist and wide hips with nice rounded butt.., But i know it wouldn't be possible unless i undergo an aesthetic operation which i don't intend to do.., even if i can afford it..,=) and i always wanted to become a jolly and optimistic person.., i don't want to have my mood swings anymore..=)
@karen1969 (1779)
12 Jun 10
In my head, I am young, slim and beautiful too but in real life, I am 40 years old, overweight and plain looking. I guess I have never been truly beautiful, but I was young and slim and I do miss those days. I know I can't go back to being eighteen again, but I could try to lose weight to be slim, but it is so hard and even being slim would not guarantee happiness.
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
you mean you are dreamning yourself that you are skinny and pretty girl?? ummm maybe its because you wish to be skinny , i mean you wish all the time that to be a skinny, maybe thats why.. daisy rose