Long distance relationship...

Philippines
May 22, 2010 8:24pm CST
Is it hard to have a long distance relationship?
10 responses
• Philippines
25 May 10
There's no chance its gonna be easy. Some will only lead to divorce after marriage so what's the big deal? It takes strength and unbroken promises not noticeably common these days to ever reach the point that it works.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
23 May 10
It can be difficult to make a long distance relationship last. I was on my trip around the world when I was 20 years old. In Australia I met a man and he became my boyfriend. We had a lovely time together there and at Christmas we went up to North Queensland. There we had to say goodbye because my visa was running out. I was so sad to leave him in Australia and I went on to Asia. Whilst in Asia I got sick and fell down an open drain. My boyfriend saved up to come over to my home country. We got married and had a baby son that next year. Sadly he didn't like living in my home country. He thought the weather was too cold. He wanted to go back to Australia and we ended up getting divorced. In those days letters took one week now email makes things a lot easier for a long distance relationship.
• India
23 May 10
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@sheanne (440)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Hello sfcreyes, it depends on the couple how strong their commitment with each other. And the most important thing to remember you have TRUST to each other. I am into long distance relationship and I admit it is really hard especially when there are times that you want him to be by your side. I know the fact that there are always temptation, but I never questioned him about infidelity. I trust and I love my boyfriend, I really don't know if we'll be together in the end but I enjoy and make the most of our time whenever were together. I do know for sure that it will be his lost if he'll leave me for someone else. Are you into long distance relationship too? Welcome to mylot and happy mylotting.
@rhinarea (311)
23 May 10
Yes. it's really hard to have a long distance relationship i've been away from my boyfriend for 4 months and we have been fighting the whole time. it's hard because the only way to communicate was on the net or at the phone.
• China
23 May 10
hi sfcreyes it depends, althougth sometimes it seems to be. I have encountered the same problem as well. I find if i want to keep this relationship i must trust my boy friend and the relationship btwn us unconditionally. Yet, straightly speaking, some times doubts do arise because I feel uncertain about the future...... In my opinion, this fear makes long distance relationship to be hard. In fact, I wonders wheter this fear does not exists in other, so called "short-distance", ones. If it does, then I just get myself into a prodox.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
23 May 10
It depends, if your the type of person whose clingy and always wants to see his partner then its gonna be hard.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
23 May 10
It depends..as some of the long distance relationships don't successfully work.. Persnally, it depends on both partners & how committed they are into the relationship..
• Australia
23 May 10
yes sometimes its hard because of the lack of his/her presence but its still works and the sparkles of your relationship still exists if you both have good and intimate communications like chatting, emails, phone calls and cellphone text messages
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
23 May 10
This really depends on if you trust your partner enough. And both partner needs to play a role. It also depends on the type of person you are, if you need your mate in your bed every night then long distance relationship is not for you. If you can control your emotions until your mate reach you after a long while or so then maybe you can try this long distance thing but to me long distance relationships are only hard if you want it that way.