We done any mistack ?

India
May 23, 2010 2:37am CST
Hi friends, marriage is the most important thing in every persons life. some peoples are spend lot of money on marriage. and some do register marriage. Some don't like to spend money on marriage. Then also they happy to live together. Mine also register marriage. But some people in society says that register marriage is not good marriage. My husband and me live together and we are very happy but some family member and society people disturb us they tont us. What u think that we done any mistack, doing register marriage.
8 responses
• India
23 May 10
Hello friend!! You have not done any mistake rather you have done a good job that you saved money as well as saved this world from sound pollution and other such affects which happens in marriages... I am an Indian as well and in favor of register marriage... Now as you say that people from society are taunting and so on... People's work is to talk... They don't look at their own life whether that is like hell but don't let others live happy so don't bother such...... people.... I am happy that my friend is happy with her husband and stay happy always dear friend... Just ignore people... As much you will listen and mind to others...as much bad you will feel.... who the hell they are to say you anything... no one dear... your family matters to you ... and you are happy in that...... that is all.... Be happy dear friend!! Ignore such people as there work is just to talk about.........!! Have great time and happy life!! Take care!! Happy myLotting!!
• India
24 May 10
Thanks for this great advice.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
24 May 10
People mostly look out for excuses to have a hearty laugh on anything at others. If you are fat they will laugh, if you are too thin they will laugh, if you are bespectacled they get an excuse to laugh, if you are just married they laugh, if the marriage is broken they laugh. So basically what I am trying to say that there are some people who derive pleasure out of anything especially hurting somebody else. Its your life. You are enjoying your life with your husband thats what all matters. Don't let anybody else's rudeness creep into you. next time you hear a rude comment, just ask them to mind their own darn business. Welcome to Mylot!
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
23 May 10
hi svaishali, Marriages are made in heaven,do you know it,and marriage is most important thing in the life,some may spend more and some may spend less money on the marriages,marriage is only one time for most of the Indians,but some miser people will not spend more on the marriages,some may go for registered marriages and some may go for simple marriages,do not worry about your marriage,what ever may be the people speak about your marriage,you have done right thing,wish you all the best ,have a nice day
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
23 May 10
You did not do any mistake. Marriage is marriage. Whether you spent lots of money or little money to marry that is nothing to do. Both of you are happy being husband and wife that's enough. Be happy and don't give ear to anybody's comment.
@jugsjugs (12967)
23 May 10
I was married the first time in a church and that marriage lasted all of 3 years where as the second time i got married was in a registry office and so far it has lasted 14 years.I think it all depends on how long aswell as how well you got to know the person before you got married to them as if there was only a short time like only a year before you got married to the person you can not have had time to know all there is to know that person.
• Philippines
23 May 10
The way i see it, marriage is only a mistake if you married the wrong person. Just ignore what other people say about you. As long as you're happy with your marriage, it'll never be a mistake. Let them say whatever they wanna say. Maybe they're just jealous or something. :)
@dependent (131)
• China
23 May 10
that is a strange thought why dont loved people registered? to register is to mean ur love is approved and accepted that is not a funny issue maybe the people who disturb u r insane leave them alone
• China
23 May 10
No it's not a mistake. If you and your husband is happy with your registered married then why people say some thing wrong. Because they have nothing to do without criticize others people. And they are jealous in your love. So just ignore them and be happy always.