i need a daughter

@kirthy (383)
India
May 25, 2010 10:19am CST
hi mylotters, last year i got married. but till now i m not a pregnant.but in my family all the people are wanting a male child. but i want a female child. till now i am praying to get pregnancy. and to get a daughter.
13 responses
@sheanne (440)
• Philippines
25 May 10
Hello kirthy, have you and your husband already had a check up? are you both healthy especially you to bear a child, if yes then there's no problem at all.. you will get pregnant as much as you want. The reason why you didn't get pregnant yet maybe both of you are busy at work, so much stress sometimes causes delay. Have some good rest, healthy lifestyle, good nutrition and when you're preparing to get pregnant I think you need to start taking folic acid vitamins but you have to consult your ob gyne regarding taking medicines. Your family couldn't force you to have a baby boy. You can never tell what will be the gender of your child. It's your husband's xx chromosomes that will give what will be your baby's gender. Why not try this method... from first day of your menstruation til the 10th day if you have contact with your hubby during those days basically you can't have contact during your heavy period.. just be sure you have contact during those days and not after the 10th day, said you will have a baby girl. If you have a contact after the 10th day til the 20th day, you will have a baby boy. Hope this will work out with you. In God's will you will have your child. Happy mylotting.
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@kirthy (383)
• India
25 May 10
thank you dear friend your ideas gives confident to me. i will try your ideas this month. actually we does not have any problems. but i don t know , why such a late.........
@george000 (166)
• India
27 Jul 10
Best wishes for you but we cannot predict what will be as it is god wishes and if you wish,hope you will be successful and I will pray for you to have a beautiful daughter and your wishes will come true .Hope you will full fill your dreams.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I guess you can have it. I haven't tried it yet but might be soon once i get married. I've seen a chinese genger calendar that let's you plan on the gender of your baby if you are planning to have one. They said its 99% accurate, its basically based on the womans age at the time of concieving and what month should you do it. I tried to "back track" our genders it was correct saying that my mom was at this age when i was conceived and also they based it on month. And all of us had the right gender. It's hard to explain but see if for yourself. ;-)
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
26 May 10
why don't you pray for a pair of twin?your problem will be solved and even everyone will be happy..it is not easy but it is possible..my cousin been married for 6 years but till now they failed to get any child..it is worst for them but you don't have to worry..you should try more and try many different things with medication or just consult the gynae..they know the best..
@durgabala (1360)
• India
26 May 10
Some get pregnant the very next month for some it takes years. It all depends on your fertility period. May be you are not utilising your fertility period. Consult a doc and she will let know. Do not bother abt the gender of the child. If all want male child, what will happen to reproduction in future. Who will these males marry LOL. I can understand still there are conservative families in India who need only male child. Be calm and stay cool, take a break and go for a honeymoon. relax and see you will get pregnant immediately.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
26 May 10
i hear that the power of the mind sometime is quite powerful.I my aunty wish for daughters so she will stick all those female baby pictures in the toilet beside her dressing table , cupboard and such . Day and night she will stare at those pictures and made a wish ! Guess what , she finally got a daughter!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
25 May 10
Kirthy! May GOd bless youw with a healthy child .Whether it is a male or female it is all in GOd's hands. Just pray that things must be normal and the pregnancy must be smooth and the child a normal one.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
26 May 10
I have got a baby daughter of 11 months old, a disabled son that is 3 years old and a teenage son that is 15 years old. I didn't see myself having three children. I never imagined that I would have a disabled child. Before I had my children I hoped to have a baby girl and a few years later a baby boy. If I had only had one child I would have wanted to have a girl. It is possible to sway for pink or sway for blue. There are two ways a lady could try to get a daughter or a son. One is the shuttles method and the other is the 0-12 method. I know about the shuttles method. It is based on getting the right ph level and doing it on the days of the month that would be favorable. Good luck getting pregnant with a baby girl.
@GemmaR (8517)
25 May 10
No matter what child you end up with, you will love it whether it is a boy or a girl. You would have to love your child either way, no matter what gender it is. If you get a boy first time, you would love him, but you could have another baby and hope for a girl the second time round. Before that, you should work on actually getting pregnant. Improve your diet as much as you can, and do regular exercise to improve your general fitness. This would increase your chances of getting pregnant in the first place. Also- it isn't about what your family wants, it is about what you want, it's about what your partner wants too.
@MAllen400 (829)
26 May 10
It can be a vicious circle. The more you want to get pregnant the longer it takes as you get het up. Try and relax, easier said than done I know, and concentrate on other things. We had 2 children then after 7 years decided we would love another but oh the tears every month! then I accepted that it was not goinng to happen and anyway I did have two wonderful children. The next month I was pregnant! If you were in England I would say to you to be happy the baby was healthy whether a boy or a girl but I do know in some countries it does matter a lot more than over here. What ever happens, enjoy being with your husband and your time childless because soon there will be 3 of you and you wont be able to do the things you can now lol
• United States
26 May 10
Sometimes we are so filled up with our "wants". A child is a blessing no matter, and a reward from God. You will love a son just as much as a daughter, I'm sure, once you see that little face. I have ten children, seven biological, three adopted from the foster care system. Six sons, four daughters. They are all blessings!!
• United States
25 May 10
You don't aklways get what you want. I wanted three boys and only one daughter and ended up with just the opposit-one son, three daughters. I can tell you, girls are much harder to raise, much more issues...Good luck on getting pregnant.
• United States
25 May 10
You can only have what god gives you, look at me I so badly wanted the girl after my son donovan was born. In fact today I am a mother of three boys aged 2, 5, 7, my advice dont ask for the girl just take it one day at a time and dont be disappointed if you have a boy. They are so much easier to raise than a girl my bff has two girls and having more trouble raising them than I am raising my boys.