"I LOVE YOU"- do you really mean it every time you say it!?

i'm not always saying iloveyou to my family members specially my parents.that's why when i do i know that it's true. well, i always tell my 3yr. old niece that i love her and i mean it well of course. well,i remembered one time that i have said i love you to a guy that i don't really love.he's like "torpe" and doesn't know how to court a nice girl like me. so i was the one who courted him.i think it's not court by the way,but it looks like it. well,he doesn't talk much because of shyness.but i know that he likes me.we even have a date but i'm the one who talks than him.kinda boring in a way. well,i like his physical features,taller than me and dark and slightly handsome. i just would like to know if how can my life be when i'm with him? so,i told him that i love him. just as i thought,nothing would change.he doesn't still talk much and is like don't care for me much.so i broke up with him after a month and to my surprise he has a girlfriend when we're still together.luckily,i didn't fall for him...

me and my wife used to say "i love you" everyday. i don't think either one of us will say the words without really mean it. but i remember i told someone before that i love her, but i lied.

I say what I mean (most of the time, I occasionally have trouble with semantics.). But more to the point, I mean what I say. I tell people all through the day that I love them, and I do. I love them as friends, and neighbors, as coworkers, and as people I can learn from. I love all the people that come into my life, for the lessons I learn from them, and the joys they bring me. Even those that chose to do me harm, I learn from. I learn so much, and I appreciate all these people. I love each and every one of Gods Children, and I say so. And I mean it. Many people think I over use the words, so few people can feel the sincerity now a days, sometimes, I wonder whether or not it matters, because of how insensitive we are to the finer emotions. Sincerely and with Love and Appreciation.

I rarely saying I love you in my life. Every time I say it. It come from my deepest heart. I am not the kind of person who saying I love you without no meaning, I have a friend who say I love to many people so with easily every day, Its hard to imagine he will say it from his heart because he said it with no feeling in that word.

I not that kind of person who always say the word I LOVE YOU . That's why when I say it, It really is true and besides. Why should I say I LOVE YOU if I don't mean it? It would just be a waste of time.

me,,when i say I LOVE YOU i really mean it because this is the way how to express your feelings to someone you loved so much in your whole life...when I'll say this phrase to someone I'll make sure that i really mean it a lot,, there are some people just say the phrase without any feelings maybe they have no intentions to take it seriously,,maybe for the satisfaction of someone... if you say I LOVE YOU to a person or the one you love take it seriously from the bottom of your heart because you don't know life is short you have to say what you feel before it's too late....

yeah I don't say it unless I mean it...

Hi phoenix! Why are you so young, but yet so wise and so right! Some people have no trouble saying those three words, and that is because I believe that they don't mean it! There are no real feelings behind them and some of them just say them to get what they want! No offense, but more often men do it, although don't get me wrong there are plenty of gold digging women who will drop those words like their hot to get what they want and drop whatever else they have too along with it (get what I'm saying)! So, if someone says those words to you, make sure you KNOW who they are and if you can trust them! Me and my girlfriends say it to each other, but even to them I won't say it unless they are a true enough real friend and I mean it!

Well it depends. When you are drunk you say some things you don't mean haha. Yes I agree with you that this is phrase becomes daily habit and sometimes when I want to say I like you I say I love you. But I really mean it when I say it to mom, boyfriend etc.

hi,yes,friend.Few valuable words become casual now a days.I love you...is one of those..bye..sorry...pardon me...execuse me...all the best...best of luck..God bless you............ Here the point is those words are not coming from the inner heart of the persons,who are pronouncing these words...as you mentioned.

i think most of the time No. Yes we could love someone alot. But some time we just say these words to show our gestures and not each time this means what it should be. What ever i think the feelings are more important than the words.

I try not to say that unless I really mean it. When someone says it to me, I don't always believe it. I think the way you act means much more than what you say. That phrase seems to be said too much to mean anything lately.

Usually i don't use this so much. And I love you we can say to our family member,friend and people also without our lover. So i say it and i meant it. With out mean we can not say this i think.

I really mean it when i say i love the person specially who are attached to me.but you know what some people just say they love the person just to satisfy other feelings but they don't really mean it.

Yes i mean it. That is the best phrase in the world. Best day ever.

I use this words very often ... But only 1st time i say them i realy understand what is real love ... after that when i say it i don`t feel anything :)