Where is the real fridends?

China
May 28, 2010 7:17pm CST
I thought I had a lot of friends.We Always got together,to have fun or visit each other .Outwardly,our relationship is very good ,but actually.when I really need some help ,It seems few friend can help me. So, I am always telling myself :There are no real friend in modern times? And I realy want to konw how other people make friends in daily life ,and are there only family members can be trusted?
4 responses
@zralte (4178)
• India
29 May 10
I know exactly what you mean about friends. 'A friend in need is a friend indeed' - is very true. I realised who my real friends were when I needed help a few years ago. Some cannot help me, which I understand, but there are some I know that I could never count on to do anything for me. Someone who I don't really consider as friend turned out to be a great help when I needed, that made me re-evaluate friendship. It is not about having fun together - it is about being there for each other when needed.
• China
29 May 10
A friend in need is a friend indeed. that's right.I think it's time for me to ajust something..
• Malaysia
3 Aug 10
Real friends are out there..just need time to find them out.. Real friends have a special place in their hearts for each other and will defend and protect each other. They will listen to each other, give good advice, keep promises they make to you , always tell you the truth, forgive each other, quickly forget whatever was wrong and never jealous of each other.
@jugsjugs (12967)
29 May 10
I have found that there are alot of people that you can say are your friends,but when it comes to a trusted friend i find it very hard to trust anyone as there have been friends in the past that i had known for a long time that ended up being back stabbers aswell as people that only wanted to come to see you if they did not have any other friends about.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
4 Jun 10
Well true, a friends circle will always cheer us and its a happy moment to rejoice. I have my friends who are very humorous and lots of fun, but i also feel we maintain a distance and dont except so much, as there comes the bitter feel.