stupid things you did for love

hi, i also did so much of stupid things for him. he scolded me about this. i think, in love it is very common.

I think that is because men don't expect you to do something bizarrely crazy in order for him to appreciate you. You need to be yourself and should he not see that you're someone worth it, then it's his loss. I have done my fair share of stupidity too. Having been in love with a man for over 7years without being appreciated for it. It was really tough. I have gone through creating websites for him, learning softwares, learning to sing and cook the meals he loves, getting thinner, finding ways to be 'interesting' for him. Everything boiled down to one thing - I wasn't his type! Took me a long time to recover, and right now I could definitely laugh at myself because I am with the sweetest and best guy ever and I haven't done any crazy stuff just for him to like me. I think we must learn to keep things simple. Come to think of it, if I had been with that guy now, I would have over exhausted myself on trying squeeze all the creativity in the world so that he would notice me daily. The paranoia of him finding someone would be enough to lead me to insanity. Hahahaha I'm glad I'm over that unworthy piece of meat!

i don't know if it's stupid, i choose to hang with my friend and get drunk than be with my girlfriend (now my ex) and have s*x, i regret that the cause it took me several month to have s*x again with her...

Well i wrote her name 10,000 times and gifted her.

i think that going completely out of your way for someone who you are not sure likes you is not smart. maybe when you are sure of his/her feelings towards you should you try and impress them just to show them that they are special to you and even this should not be totally outrageous things like cleaning , cooking....speaking from a guys perspective, i never try to impress a girl that iv just met with jewelry, gifts clothes or anything of the sort, the most i can do is pay for a movie or lunch....

I have done many stupid things for love and I really regret that. I have made myself look stupid in front of other people just to please someone. Totally sucks.