what age is to young to get married?
By mzbaybe
@mzbaybe (91)
Canada
11 responses
@lm1989 (7)
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31 May 10
I have to say...I'm 20 years old and getting married in two months, and so many people have asked me, "don't you think you're a little young?" A little young for what? I think the right time to get married is when you've met the right person...the person you could definitely see yourself spending the rest of your life with. If they happen to come along when you're 18, or 20, or 45, it doesn't matter. I've met the person I know I'm going to marry, and don't think I should wait five years just so people will stop expressing doubt.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jun 10
lm1989 hi yes the early twenties is the besttime to wed and to have children without birth defects. in the mid thirties and forties a good manybabies are born with some birth defects, mild to very severe.believe me to have a child born with birth defects is sad but manageable yet plan the right age to bear your children and you will have normal babies.
goodluck with your wedding and congratulations to the marriage too.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
1 Jun 10
For girls less then 18 and for boys less then is very young for get married. And this i have learn from my text book of my school book.
And no love are not enough to get married. People should wait till that they maturity.
If they love then they should wait.
Have a good day!
@jugsjugs (12967)
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1 Jun 10
I think first of all before you even consider getting married you should live with a person for about a year and a half as that way you know all of their bad habits aswell as all of their faults.Then after at least a year and a half you have had the chance to find out what they are like aswell as abit about the way they are to live with to know that is what you both want,never do it because you think you have got to get married aswell as never get pushed into it by the other person as it is easier to wait than to wish you had not got married to the person.
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@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
I think age is not really the factor. You can get married when you reached the youngest allowable age in your country. The more important things to consider are if your already emotionally, physically, spiritually and of course financially. Life is really hard today so you really don't want to be married when you are not ready.
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 10
I think the age depends on the age limit for marriage, if a woman, then a good age for marriage is between 20-25,because according kesahatan married women over the age of 30 years will be at risk in a pregnancy.
If a man, then a good age for marriage is between 25-30 and are economically well-established, because at that age the average economic well-established enough to get married.
@haryonita (60)
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
is mature enough to get married couples receive under any circumstances
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@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
1 Jun 10
I think more than age it is maturity when the marriage should be fixed, it all depends on the capability of guy to manage family too and capability of girl to respond to the demand of the family.age as such cannot be fixed but yes true minimum age should be 18 as that even legally abides the people as adults and matured
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jun 10
mzbaybe hi too young is the teens. they just are not ready and the kind of jobs they get usually would not support a family when the female teen invariably gets pregnant. the doctors say the best age for women to bear
children is in the early twenties as the eggs are fresher and not likely to cause childbirth health defects. I say when you both have good jobs and som money saved up then think Marriage.[
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I dont exactly know the exact answer for this one but you will just feel it actually. I am not very young when I got married, I was 25 years old at that time and my siblings got married when they were 23 and I guess that's not young. Teenager is a young age to get married. I think teenagers dont know any better when it comes to serious things like getting married.
@krischine (269)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
It depends on your maturity, but be sure when you plan of getting married, you can stand for your self and not giving burden to your family. If the person truly loves you and that time you are still young on your teens, that person can wait. Don't make such decision into hurry, you might regret it at the end. Many couples married too young but mostly they always fight for misunderstanding and leads to separation. Yes love is always there, but wait ti'l your'e both mature enough and responsible in any things. The best age in getting married is not less than 23, at that age you can stand for your self financially and has the maturity.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
31 May 10
I think it comes with maturity. Some people mature faster than others. When you feel like you can support yourself (you have a decent job and probably went through college) and are in love with the other person, then you are ready to be married.