Did you ever regret getting married?

It takes hard work to make marriage work. I have been married for 6 years now and yes, there are times when I think 'WHY DID I EVER GET MARRIED?' And I think every one feels that at one point or another. So you are not alone. I don't regret my decision though. I have 2 beautiful daughters and also knowing that I have someone I can count on is really great. We have our ups and downs like every married couple, along with in-laws problem like any normal family. We fight through all the problems and all those problems make us stronger. I don't think that people are necessarily happy just because they don't fight or argue. So, chin up, you will go through things a lot worse than you have and if you love your husband and he loves you, I'm sure you will be happy, no matter what. Remember that no one is happy all the time.

my friend its true that you wont get really know your partner until you live with him. im on that stage until now. sometimes i feel like i want to live him becuase we cannot understand each other. there are things that he doesnt like me to do. and there are things also that i discovered about him. i already asked a couple before to seek answer for my problem same as your problem. they always say that its just in the beginning. both of you are adjusting each other's behavoiur. different from when you are still in the stage of bf/gf. right? we keep on fighting everyday . and i dont know y i hate him sometimes. well, just keep on hang on with your married life becuase someday, it will get better . just adjust each other. understand each other.have some patience and talk to each other about how not to fight. married life is different from single.

Hi dhezrn, i have been married for 5 years now and i would be very honest that until now im asking myself the same question you have. But maybe because i got married a little too young. In the end, its a question of myself not him. The dreams of doing a lot better in my life if i am not married and things like that always gets in my mind. Especially when things starts to get all over the place. But maybe we need to realize that the real challenge in marriage and commitment is acceptance. I got loads of questions in my marriage too yet i know i have to stay there and see things deeper. That's what we meant when we made our vows "for better or for worst".

the thing is, you are married and you have no choice but to try to work it out....everybody gets mad sometimes and feels a tiny question...but i love my husband and its a deep love that i will never actually regret. the Lord puts you together, you just have to figure it out and respect each other.

I did not regret getting married. I know my wife better before we got married. All aspect about her good or bad I just love her. You have to adjust in your partner. Try to talk to him and discuss about your relationship. Don't ever regret because it is very hard to live with the one you are regreting of.

dhezrn! i was married once and was separated for 23 years now but i don't regret been married once. its a joke for us friends its better to be married once than never been married at all..its fine i have 3 beautiful legitimate sons and daughter living with me without the expense of the father. and they are all successful now and away from misery of living with an infidel, irresponsible papa... don't regret you might have benefits after all! persevere ....

I was always told that it takes at least 6 months of dating before a person really begins to show their true self and 6 months to a year of living together before you get used to each other's little quirks. I think that this is pretty accurate. You said that you just got married 3 months ago, and I am assumming that you did not live together before you were married(?). It is going to take a while to get used to it all. I cannot say that I have ever regretted marrying my husband, but I will say that it took us a good year to get used to being a married couple and several arguments before we finally began to compromise about things. We still have our differences, and we have been married for almost 3 years. I am sure that we will always have some differences. A few people I know who have been married for 20+ years have told me that over time, household responsibilities seem to delegate themselves to one person or the other, you just get used to some things (such as seeing his shoes in the middle of the floor), and you just find that other things aren't that important(the fact the his shoes are in the middle of the floor). One other thing that seems to be key to a healthy and long-lasting marriage is a mutual appreciation and respect for each other and each other's space. In other words, we should be thankful and show appreciation to our spouses for those things, big and small that they do on a daily basis and not take those things for granted. And we should recognize and respect that our spouses still need time for themselves. I do not claim to have a perfect marriage, it is definately not perfect. I will say that I learn from those around me that are in long-lasting, loving and successful marriages, and I try to take what I learn home with me.

Hi, As one goes through life there are many times when you regret your decision but it may be a phase which most people get over and they are back to their daily routine of husband/wife, home,children routine.It is only when there is a serious problem of adjustment that things may escalate and lead to seperation.I feel that if there is even a small nagging feeling of doubt, it is better to have a frank talk and clarify the matter instead of keeping it within oneself and being unhappy with your partner.I feel that a good communication and understanding is the basis of any successful marriage.Three months is a very short time to judge anyone.Be positive and try to his positive side - all the best and have a nice weekend

Hello there, I am single. therefore, i may have to take a lot of consideration before i get married. friends first, then dating then getting to know more even though you have a relationship with that person already. then, if your both think that you're mature enough then that's the time you should decide for an engagement. for married ones, either stick to it or divorce them.

I could never regret getting married. i lost my husband to cancer four years ago. I cherish the memories of our life together. Marriage is a commitment and union of two souls. There is nothing that can surpass the magic and emotion of getting married.

Hey Just Give Him some time,and if U fell things are not changing much, then get ur self seprated from him,but peaceful manner.because I think that One should leave those relations while on a beautiful turn, which he or she thinks cannot take forward in Life. have a nice day

hhe do you love your husband? :)

married mean live together...ofcoz u will see many thing that u didnt see while ur a couple...just 1 thing i wanna say here...nobody is perfect rite...hope u understand what i mean...