i consider her a friend.. she considers me a slave...
By enyoung
@enyoung (42)
Philippines
June 2, 2010 10:43pm CST
i am choosy in making friends.when i consider a person my friend, she'll always find me loyal. i always care for my friends and i dont want to lose them. i had a friend whom i have to let go. i cant take it anymore. i consider her my friend but she sucks. she just comes when she needs me and i dont feel that she considers me a friend. instead, she sees me as a subordinate, a slave. oh my.. i cant take this anymore. so i have to leave her alone.. she's not a true friend. how about you, would you also do the same if you were in my situation?
6 responses
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
Sure! but what would be a greater love than this that you lay your life to your friend?
Find the true friend life.... and Jesus Christ the true One.....
@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
5 Jun 10
the more you give importance to a person in life depending on the other person it always seen that if their relation ship of friends both will be equally respectable together and one doesn't consider salve, if she has considered slave that means she is not looking you as your lover or friend but only as a person from whom she can get her work done, there is no definition of slave in friend and love dictionary
@Jules01 (131)
•
3 Jun 10
True friendship is about give and take. Though we don't do a conscious calculation you find that when one person does all the taking the other one will become tired of it. Have you spoken to this person about what they're doing? Maybe they don't even realise it. Does she or he do it to other people too? Is there a pattern?
You have needs too, and don't feel guilty about the fact. If the person is taking too much from you, or using you, then it is time to say goodbye. There are lots of wonderful people out there looking for new friends. Make room for them and get out there and enjoy yourself.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
4 Jun 10
Be a Man, take her in private and do her a man's job, so that she learns that u r a man,
Have a nice day
@amsaga0994 (112)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
me, i would also do the same but i would do something not to hurt her pride
@jhodevera (32)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
hhmmm.... if i were in your situation, first thing that i would do is to talk to her. be open and tell her how you feel. then give enough time to see if there would be any changes. let's say 2 weeks. If none, then you need to make a move of avoiding her. Then I guess she will realize her lost.
