should I make love with my boyfriend?

China
June 3, 2010 9:15pm CST
my boyfriend was 25 and i was 24, he said he will love me forever, but we know each other last month... and the second time he see me, he said that he want to make love with me... i refused him. But he said this many times, i am in dilemma, because i love him and donnot want him to disappointed... but in our country and in my heart, this thing should be put after the marriage, so i feel vexed. how should i do, and your girlfriends would agree with you?
2 responses
vokial_voc
@vokial_voc (172)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 10
no, u shouldn't. most man now are always use sweet words to get what their want, what if he leave u after you had make love with him before marriage? if he really want to make love, then why not get married?
qqshiyi
@qqshiyi (19)
• China
4 Jun 10
i think you are right, now i know. sometimes i think he was trying to push me around. thank you.
vokial_voc
@vokial_voc (172)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 10
many of girls in my country were leave by her boyfriend after making love before marriage, i just don't want to add more victim
balinarendra
@balinarendra (8)
• India
4 Jun 10
well i guess u are an indian .... and i think u may go for it but wid some limits....