My friend Erased Me from Her Facebook Freinds

Hi, Please think this as one of the experience. I would recommend you to directly ask your friend as to why she has removed you from her friend list. She must had some reason or she might did it mistakenly. So it would be better one "ASK". I believe you can send msg from Facebook to her. Bye for now and take care. Have a nice day!!

do not worry about it,just call her,may be she erasered your name from the list,sometimes,the system could be wrong,maybe the system mistake,when you call her,everything is clear.do 'nt guess this or that,there is nothing can'nt be solved.

hey.. even i have had the same experience .. according to me there are some people which remove friends on social networking sites if they are not in touch with them.Maybe this is a reason she has removed you from her friends list. I suggest you try contacting her and ask her about this and explain to her your reasons for not being in touch with her. She will understand and add you back. If she is not replying .. then thats really sad .. then you too should delete her from your friends list.

This is one of the reasons I do not like Facebook. First off, people put in the most personal thoughts and feelings for the world to read. Once my son-in-law wrote something that really hurt my feelings. I decided then and there to get off of Facebook. Folks get way too personal and air their dirty laundry in public. Some things need to be private.

lol i have a face book account too but i don't take things seriously, when any body sends a friend request i just accept, please take things lightly.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof

I do erases those person who I don't want to be my friends in facebook, but in your situation well I guess you have a misunderstanding before but you forgot it already or simply you just ignore the fact. I have a close friend, that she knows every secrets that I have, one time we had an misunderstanding that is very deeply personal for she betrayed and I ignore her for 3 years. As time goes by, as we accidentally bump into each other then we started to talk but we haven't talk about our past misunderstanding. Until now, we are still friends but it has a barrier already for I could not tell her everything in what I have done in life. Even now she is in the other country we used to contact with each other because we are friends, I've known her for 9 years so I could not waste our friendship in just one misunderstanding. I know that you are wondering right now and asking yourself why she erased you as her friends in facebook. The only advice I can give you is that, look back at your past with your friend and think for a reasons why.. if you could not guess it, try to ask her and confront her in a friendly way. Do not show that you are affected with it. All things can be resolve, and hope your friendship won't last. Goodluck

Well if that is the case, they you have to moved on from this. First of all, how close the two of you are? Do you both know personally, had been spending time with each other before? Do you remember something you do in the past that can give her a reason to get angry at you? Me, I do have pride sometimes. If a friend erased me from their friends list without any valid reasons to do it, I do not ask question. I do not initiate to ask her to know the truth I just leave it there. It is their lost of losing me, besides there are more people that are more important to waste time with.

hmm... when two people are standing on the opposite of the door and neither of them wants to open it first, how can the door be opened? In other words, how can you find out the real reason why she would do that if you won't hear it from her first hand. (Don't rely on what other people would say). Facebook is just one of the countless means of communication anyway. For my experience, I have a friend who would not talk to me for about four years I think... I just kept trying... little by little she's responding now... :)

hiii . may be i am not an better grown up for this but i know one thing friends doesnt do these often.......in here is an old belief that the most dearful ones wll just ignore us and hate us if they think we had done wrong to them.....so think also what would have been went wrong with her as being you and what is wrong with you from thinking from her side........see to that friends are not mere things to loose one and buy an another........ bye take care......

I can imagine how you feel...but I like to learn the way to tell it to myLotters. There is no sign of anger in your words but you seem to be sincere to her. Have the two of you had a misunderstanding lately before she resorted to deleting you from her friendship list? Just cool down. I think if you send an apology message to her, she would consider your apology and give it a cooling off period of ten days...do not pester her for forgiveness. I pray that God will help reconcile your friendship.

ME too .. but I don't know who erases me as her friend .. It's so annoying !! but don't take it seriously we don't need those kind of people :D

Well, if she took you out of her friends list, then I guess you could either just take her out of yours, or, perhaps try and talk to her about it? I don't know much about facebook or about adding/deleting friends, but is it possible to delete someone by mistake?

Since you and her were close friends, i think it's not new to you of asking, "Hey, what's wrong?". Nothing will lose if you confront her. Would you like to carry that burden of yours all throughout your life? You'll get a heart problem for that.

I don't think it was a mistake.In my case,i intentionally delete those who are not very close to me or if whom i have some issues with.Try to get,you could also delete her from the list.LOL

unless she says as much,i wouldn't read too much into it. i know people that will delete you if you don't post to them every single day as if you don't have a life other than them. and if they demand,well good ridance.

I would send her a note on facebook asking if she deleted you on purpose. Some people have so many friend, that they periodically delete hundreds and hundreds at a time, just to stay under 5,000. I'm not quite to 5,000, but I'm over 3,000 already.

I would go talk to her. What if it was an accident? What if the program screwed up? What if she thought you did something mean to her, and it was a misunderstanding? There's a million things that could have happened, and you are going to lose a friend without even knowing why? I'd at least send her a note, and ask her how things are going, and how she's been, and oh you noticed that she removed you from her friends list, and wondered why. The worst possible answer is, well I don't like you anymore, and then at least you'll know, and can move on knowing you gave it your best shot to patch things up. That's still far better than not knowing and assuming she's mean when you have no idea. Reverse the situation. What if you accidentally deleted a friend, without realizing it, or what if the computer removed her by mistake. Wouldn't you want them to contact you, instead of getting all angry and bent about it?

You should not add her as friend again. If she delete you. But may be she delete you as a mistake. If yes then she will send you add request again otherwise not. So you should wait. And should not add her. Should leave her.

The exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. One of my former best friends just deleted me from her list, even though the rest of her former friends were still on her friends list. For a few days, I just ignored it even though it was bothering me all the time, because I hadn't done anything to her to deserve being deleted. But, I ended up sending her a PM on facebook and asked her why she deleted me and we pretty much sorted the whole thing out, even though we don't talk much now either. If she's somebody you consider important to you, then maybe you should talk to her and see if its something you two can work out.

i would try to talk to her, maybe it was an accident only one way to find out but if she tries to avoid you then you already knowand you don't need friends like that