What hurts most?

a real thought provoking subject. but, to tell you an answer, without thinking... I would say... It does not bother me, ... either way! ..

I guess the latter will hurt the most. It means she had been lying to me all this time while i'm investing emotionally to her. That will suck big time.

Hello ellebo418, I would pick Hello I love you Good bye. I think because you are not sure if that person may still have feeling for you. The other one if they lie you know they have no feelings for you. I hope that make sense. Thanks and have a great day Sincelrey Unique16

Hi elle!! I think that both hurts either way. Simply saying I Love you means much and it doesn't hurt like the one you stated.

logically it will definitely goodbye, as you are leaving some one who his beloved to you you are definitly going to miss it. so it is good bye. but from heart it is 'i said i love you, but i lied', except for if it is a prank. if other one truly fells in love with you and then you said it was just a prank then will surely hurt someone feelings and may lead to diasatorus result like killing themselves or losing some best friend. so be careful before doing so. you must watch your word before you hurt someone a lot.

When the phrase 'I love you' one fine day without any valid reason turns into 'good bye' it really hurts.Someone accepts that he or she has lied is stil lil better i think atleast may be lately but that person had the guts to say it.When someone steps into another relationship and doesnt have the guts to tell you the truth then the safest and easiest way for him or her is to say 'goodbye'.

In my opinion, I think, the latter hurts more than the former. If my boyfriend will tell me the words, "I love you, goodbye" means that he is letting go of me because it is the best thing to do. He lets me go because of love and for my happiness. It will be more hurting on his part because it is a risk and sacrifice that he has to take. But, not that painful on my part because I know he love me much that he has to free me where I can be happy. On the other hand, when my boyfriend will tell me, "I said I love you, but I lied" means, "hey, it is over". That hurts most because all along he had been lying all along. Everything is a lie. It is as if you are letting me to decide to let go of you.

I said I love you but I lied. The words mean so much I find. And to find out that he lied when he said it would hurt down to my core. saying I love you and then goodbye would hurt but at least I would know what we both felt was real. He could leaving because of a family obligation and at least I know he loves me.

what hurts the most i guess is i love you, goodbye. what is hurtful about it is, the love is existent. something that once can live on alone. but has to end it for some important reasons. no matter how you fight for it, it would still end...and that's really painful. the painful longings are just the killer.

If ever I have to choose between the three then I think the last one hurt the most "I said I love you, but I lied", it will hurt me a lot though because when you love someone it is a wonderful thing in life, we are attached to the feelings we have for him/her,we started to care, to understand and to trust so it hurts when the trust is broken and then you realized that the person you loves so much had lied about the love itself.

When somebody will say i love you but i lied. Oh no. I will really get hurt. And it's one kind of insult also. So this will hurt me more.

i would say "i love you but i lied" hurts more. Nothing can be more painful than having made to believe your partner loved you. In "i love you, goodbye" at least you are that the relationship is a sort of "love that falls off"... I hate fakers that's why it would be better to not be fooled around.

Goodbye I would say, because it would hurt not seeing the person again. But also I feel that if someone had told me they loved me, and then said actually I lied, then that would also hurt my feelings.

hi elle! from your question i would say both of the statements hurts me IF i love him soooo much..but im not the kind of person who gives everything and love someone till it drives me crazy, so honestly both statement is nothing to me.when you are not giving everything so there is nothing to be regret.i always believe in says 'what you give you get back'.you lie to people ,in future people will lie to you back.you play with me then others will play you back then..:)

Both are song title heheheh... Well actually both are painful but the second one strikes more( I said I love you but I lied) ... I mean at least with the first statement, the guy really love us but unfortunately due to some circumstances- hinderance and obstacles he has to decide and leave us... Maybe for the good of the two of you... Hard to accept and painful but at least the feeling is true - no betrayal. The second one is full of lies... all the good memopries and experiences are fake... So how can we treasure them all? This would also leave a feeling of anger and trauma to us... like this would probably make us man hater or something... The person betrayed us by making us believe that he truly love us... What ever the reason behind it-- he cheated on us still...

I believe that what mas hurts is that they say to you that they love you and that they you are lying, since there one realizes that the love is not real, and mas pain causing when the relation goes enough time.