how many of u believe trust is needed between husband and wife to lead life
By apoorva5
@apoorva5 (120)
India
June 11, 2010 5:37am CST
i believe in strongly that loyality is needed between husband and wife to lead a peaceful life.now it has become common everywhere there is no trust between them and one of them will be having an affair so this will lead a unhappiness in there life.if u have trust in both of them u can achieve in whatever work u r doing and both can stand onbehalf if there is any kind of problem.
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38 responses
@luisadannointed (6189)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
I do believe that trust has a important role in a relationship, though its cute when sometimes you get jealous and the man keep pursuing his wife heart again, still when you are married you should protect and secure your love for one another.
Mature love secure the hearts of one another that no matter where they go they hearts only beats for each others and no one can take that away from them, no matter what people tell or try to destroy their relationship will never sway the love that they have for one another that founded by 100% trust.
Trust is a one big foundation in a strong love. God bless.
Just like when you begin to trust God when he said he loves you, no matter how hard life looks like you'll still endure it because you trust God's love for you will never forsake you nor fail you.
@chickabee (119)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Hi luisadannointed - you said this very well. I can tell you have a very good understnding of love and trust in a committed relationship. God Bless You.
@luisadannointed (6189)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Thank you God bless you more and more power. Without faith and trust there's no love will stand in the storm,,,love should be founded by commitment, trust and faith for one another. May God bless you a wonderful sunny day!
@braiym3 (135)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
I believe in it. Trust is one of the foundation of having a good married life and family life as well, if a couple do not trust each other it will only lead to unhealthy relationship. For me, if trust is no longer exist in our relationship it is better to stop and moved on with our own lives.
@rastogisw (445)
• India
11 Jun 10
I do believe in this ..Trust is the basic thing in this relationship.If husband , wife dont trust each other , but they love each other , then that relationship cant stay for long as love without loyalty cant stay for long ...have to break one day...while where strong trust exist whatever the condition comes both can manage together.
@desheree17 (65)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
I do believe that trust is very essential in a relationship. If you have trust in your partner you are showing how much you love him. My marriage life is founded from trust that's why we live life happily. However, sometimes there are some situations that because of trust, one abused the other. So, if it happens have a self-check in your marriage and make some necessary precautions. One thing that will break the bond of marriage is jealosy which often misconceive as not trusting your partner. So, have trust in your life to ensure happiness in marriage.
@joey_matthews (8354)
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31 Oct 10
It's not really needed to believe it's something that is a real fact. If you don't have trust, you don't really have a very strong relationship and of course if you don't trust yet again you no doubt have some sort of problem. I trust my Wife, there's nothing that I wouldn't do for her and I know it's the same for her. We're both very lucky to of met each other as we're very alike.
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Trust is still an important part in a husband and wife relationship. Because how can you tell yourself to be loyal when the trust had been betrayed? Normally you would get out in the relationship or be lock in it and suffer the consequences. Everyday would be a living battle for you to nag or be suspicious or betray or get back if you no longer had the trust. Loyalty is just a by product of tested trust in a relationship.
@crisanta85 (235)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
I strongly agree with you. I think the second thing that the couples would bear in mind, is having a big trust to their partner. Of course, "love" is still on top then next is the "trust". If this two things aren't present, I don't think they can handle their relationship to lasts longer.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Love your Wife,,Respect your Husband. For me this is the common way for a good relationship.
@rosie230 (1703)
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11 Jun 10
Yes, trust is needed, along with loyalty and love and happiness etc... I am in a relationship at the moment where the trust has been broken because he cheated on me, and as much as I am stupid for staying with him, I made that choice because of my love for him, and our child... but saying that, ever since this happened it has become so hard to trust him, and has had a massive effect on our relationship. We argue so much more, I get stressed out, depressed, and have had anxiety attacks. I don't know what the future holds, and I know that I am contradicting my opinion here, but yeah I firmly believe without trust, it makes for a bad relationship!
@janron29 (266)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Always put God as the center of your relationship and everything will follow. Temptation is everywhere and hard to resist. Love, loyalty, and respect are the fundamentals to have a peaceful relationship.
@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
11 Jun 10
Well trust is absolutely necessary in any relationship. If there is no trust you have nothing. You'll be unhappy and snippy instead of looking for ways to make each other feel special. My parents have been happily married for 38 years, my grand parents more than 50 yrs and I do believe its trust as well as love that has kept them together all this time.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
Trust and love have to be always present in a relationship. Some when one made a mistake one can lose his or her trust but love is till there. But for some instance because of cheating trust lose and even love. There are so many relationships like this now. You have to have trust and love at the same time for a relationship to be strong and last long.
@kkanaka (886)
• Singapore
18 Jun 10
Trust, faith, honesty all these are important things in a married life I agree, but dont know if you need it to have a peaceful life.
In my case I dont know if my husband trusts me or not if he has faith in me, but mind you we have a peaceful life, we dont quarrel, he wont question me and I am not expected to get answers to all my questions, so as you mentioned we have a peaceful life, is this what you meant.
We dont have reason to argue and if I ask anything he would just say why you want to disturb the peaceful life. Aiyah if this is happiness I could do with something different just to have a spur in my life....
You must be thinking what I am complaining about.... that's my problem dont know what should I complain about.... whether be happy that he doesnt bother me about anything in life or fight for it... still this is also very boring....
so I cannot conclude trust and loyalty will give you peaceful life..... if you want to have a satisfying life you need love....
@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
13 Jun 10
I believe that you have to have trust between a husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend. I think that you can't have any kind of decent relationship with anyone without trust. If you don't trust that person when they are not with you, then you are going to be focusing on that and not the important things.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
14 Jun 10
Complete trust is needed between husband and wife more than in any other relationship.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 10
I believe trust is really important between husband and wife. You can give all your heart if you don't have trust in that person.
I see it from my mom and dad marriage they believing each others, they share they secret and problem. I know my dad will never need other woman because my mom understand how to make him happy and its vice versa.
My mom always said in marriage what really important is no more I all about us. You had to wiling to make your spouse happy and not wait him to make you happy. Its about take and give.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
14 Jun 10
Welcome to mylot
Trust is a must between a husband and wife, without this failure is a must, well i was married in 1966, i am happy with my wife, kids, grandkids...
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Professor