Don't Call me, Don't Come by and If you Email Me, I won't Open it

Just leave her alone. If my best friend do this to me without clearing things out to me, I won't waste my precious time making amends.

respect their decision and ask to find out why since a misunderstanding could be cleared up ... even ask from a third-party.

What a conincidence! Just recently something like that happened. There was a girl who became my close friend from a social network 4 years ago. She was from NY. Well, for a while I thought she was a nice girl. We talked a lot on the phone. But somehow I knew we were very different from each other especially when we talked about our love lives. She was a psycho which I recently understood. I tried my best to help her be happy with her boyfriend. But last week she started behaving horrible and crossed her limit. So I had to tell her to never call me again or email me. She did still and I basically had to block her. So bottomline is that when someone crosses the limit it is best to kick her out of life. Time is too precious to waste on people who do not care about our lives and time.

that was really bad for him/her to do. or maybe there were some reasons why he/she did it to you.maybe you are the one who did something that he/she didn't liked. well, it happened to me in a way. i have been get rid of my best friend long time ago. she has done so much things that really hurt me a lot. and i can't give her trust and friendship anymore.. i know it's very sad to let go of a person you know who meant special to you.but in our case, i guess if you know what she'd done i guess you'll agree with me and get rid of her. i have given her a lot of chances but she always do the same. such a terrible one. and in vice versa if i would hear that line to one of my best friends, i would feel really sad. and can't forgive myself if we didn't fix the problem.i don't like the feeling of someone is mad at me. i can't sleep with that.so no matter how little the problem is,i want to settle it right away not to make it worse.

you should respect her/his desire. for friendship and relationship is an expression "if something is not,that means it was never"

I would feel really bad about that, and if that is your situation, I feel deeply sorry for you. I would probably ask my friend what was wrong and if that problem couldn't be fixed, I would stop talking to them. That is, if I even had the opportunity, since they most likely wouldn't read the email I sent them asking what was wrong like the hypothetical situation depicted in the title and description. I would think that lies or withheld information would prevent someone from knowing the true identity of someone else. If that is your predicament, then I am terribly sorry.

if my friend do it like this to me, i will not force myself to get connected with him/her. maybe it's the time to break the tie we have best friend. it happen to me before, i consider as friend but i am wondering why she said that to me but after few days she as apology because she got a big problem and our friendship affected.

this happened to me carlyn. not said in this way but i really had a best friend. i really cared and was in love with him. he cared too he didnt love me i guess but we were friends and he started to like stop caring and not by any reason. he also started to ignore me and hurt me so much these attitudes. what hurts me most was one day when it happened a confusion and he doubted about my word. the girl he loved by then was saying something i did and i didnt do and i said it to him he said he doesnt know in who to believe, that girl even humiliated me and he went after her when she left. so i talked with him one more time after this. he asked me if i did that thing again i said no and he asked me my number. i asked but why bcs he never had asked my number before and he said to see something i said i cant pick up now bcs was late night and my family was in bed. and i said when i have time i call him he gave me his number but i never called. i think that if he cares he must talk with me and not me after him again. is so sad how people waste a friend :( im hurt with him :(