do you think the discussions made by others is usefull even for us sometimes?...

YEs, I am getting lot of answers to my query reading the replies. These discussions are indeed very useful.

Hello my friend. I find them quite useful and i can give you an example on this subject - all the friends on my list and their older topics - having missed for 9 months here, and barely being able to visit but miss most of what was going on at that time, finding their topic is a good way for me returning here and feeling welcome, and at the same time finding interesting topics from people i know. I have found even some answers to some of my curiosities in the past and different views on some topics that people may consider uncomfortable to speak of in real life.

i find them useful, especially things like website that is new.

I would have to agree with this point one hundred percent. There will be others that might think of a topic that is plaguing me before I have the chance to. There might be some valuable experiences given by the people who respond to the topic that will help me. Every now and again, I see that someone has beaten me to the punch and has posted a topic that will help me. It is a great feeling in some ways that others are having similar questions. The same that I am having. Therefore, I find myself skimming the topics, while responding every now and again to add whatever input I can. I think this has happened a handful of times. Still, it is something that tends to be rather useful and helpful to me.

myLot discussions have helped me a lot. Some questions are thought provoking though.