Suggest me -- how to appease my wife.. now that i lost money online.

It's very important open with our wife in all respects, including in financial matters. I ever experience situation like you when I invested my money in HYIP. I told my wife before invested my money since it was highly risky. It was kind of need permission and agreement from her. After all, we are husband and wife and my money is her mine too. When I loss my money, she didn't angry with me. I think you have to open communication with her. Do apologize to her gently and if you can, get her an Apple ipad that you promising to her.

consultrainer! I learned from the other responses and comments that your wife is no more having any hardships towards you. Anyhow, be careful the next time so that she don't know what you are doing and fro heaven's sake don't take risks for large amounts. By the way, what is that online bidding site? I would like to know.

Hi Consult Tell her the truth and nothing but the truth. Oh she will be mad but she will get over it if you tell her before she finds out on her own. If you lie to her and don't come clean on your own then she is not only get just as mad but she will also be hurt at the lie and it will break down the trust you have for each other. Do you have faith in your love for each other? You need to tell her straight. You just have to. Come on, Consult, suck it up. oh and post a follow-up so that we know you made it out alive. ok?

hi consultrainer well wow what a predicament . As a woman lets see what could you do or say that would not make her hang you by the toes.Perhaps the easiest way,easy for me,is to tell her the truth. the whole truth and nothing but the truth while on bended knee, then put on a very sad face, a few tears would help and plead," Honey please do not hang me up by my sensitive parts, dear one forgive me, I never meant to do it" a nice bouquet of flowers might help too. Now she will either thump you or laugh her head off at the picture you make on bended knee.

First of all, it's not nice to lie to your wife. Shame on you. Secondly, didn't i tell you to start BEGGING!!!

just pretend like that you are sick. This is not my own idea. My husband does so. I used to forgive him though I know that he is pretending.

Just come clean, she is gonna find out the entire story anyway. It is best just to get it out in the open. So be it that you don't have any toe nails left. I can almost guess that there are a number of things that she hasn't told you the complete truth about either. In some aspects, I guess that would make things even for you. Good luck!

I can spare you that 20 dollars you know kiddo! But you have to be a well behaved kid with me after that! Everything comes at a price! Seriously, croon some good numbers. :) I have yet to meet a woman who wouldnt fall for that one!

I guess I was late in responding here because I've read your update in Hatley's box. I'm glad that it all went well for you. If I were here earlier I guess I would have to say that no matter what you should tell her straight your good intentions and the outcome and pray she will understand. Anyway it's good that your both okay now

Well I guess it's better to tell her the truth. Just deal with her anger, but it will not last long since she is your wife. At lest, it will give you peace of mind.

Tell her what happened, just be honest with her. At first, she might get angry with you, that's always the initial reaction for ladies. but she will understand as days past that you were just trying to have another source of income. Part of it is your fault, but admit it. And everything will be fine..

Sometimes, lying is tolerable if they can do more good than bad. Frankly speaking I do lie sometimes but not most of the time LOL. How to appease her? Well, take her for another honeymoon.

well, i never had such experience before. So, i can not give really exact answer to you. However, based on what i had learned in society, school, parents: 1. Lies is a sin and it would be really hurt if the victim discovered the truth. So, i suggest you to tell her the truth and promise you will not repeat it again. I think she will appreciate it. 2. As a man, i suggest you to be gentle. If you do mistake, then responsible for it. If you think lying to your wife is wrong, then you should apologize to her and tell the truth. Remember, girls like gentleman :D 3. Escape will not solve your problem. Instead, it will makes you frustrate and appears more guilty. I hope my suggestions are helpful for you. By the way, good luck :D