bestfriend or best enemies?

This could move from a best friend from a worst enemy because u chat all the secrets with ur best friend and he knows ur weak points and when he becomes ur worst enemy...keep out.

I have a lot friends and best friends but I don't tell anyone of them my deep secrets. Yes I tell the some of it, but those are the things that I don't mind people to know. I trust my friends, but I don't trust the world. I trust them because, I love them. I believe that trust is the best compliment of love, just like what others say "You cannot always trust the ones you love, but you can always love the ones you trust." And when I tell them I trust them, I also mean that I love them. For me, best friends are real depends on how you both handle your friendship. Everything has a limitation so better limit things that you spill. If you think you have deep secrets that you don't want others to know, keep it yourself and never tell others. Anyway, as I always say, your best friend ever, is Only Him - God.

It is indeed true coz they know your weaknesses and secrets, so when they turn against you, they know where exactly to attack you. That's why my advise to you would be to be not too trusting to other people. However long you have known them, it is possible that they have a hidden trait that you dont know about them yet, like in your case, he turned out to be a backstabber.

hi there. having a true and trusted friend is more than the label bff. i had to understand this in a span of so many years. people may come and go. and do not confine your social circle to the people who make you happy. you will soon realize that real friends are the unexpected individuals you know. do not feel bad that you had this experience with your so-called best friend. be happy that you found and saw the true colors. and i know you know what is right for you. trust everyone, but cut the cards.

well, i also had same experience with you. When we still best friend, we share our thought, secrets each other. But, once he had become my enemy, he embarrassed me in front of the girl i like. How shameful, but the girl never like his joke, that's why sometimes, she turned to be opposite to him even though she doesn't mean to defend me. Well, starting from that, i learned something. But it's totally different from you. After i evaluated my self, i think this also my mistake. why? you should know the limit of secrets you shouldn't even talk about it, moreover you telling it, although he/she is your close friend because the consequence would be fatal. For example, your family problem, you should never talk about it. The only one who know is yourself and your family. And in my opinion, my best friends are my parents. They will never betray you because they never want to see you hurt. So, try share your secrets with them, i am sure it will help you a lot :D

Don't trust everyone. This world is full of unpredictable human beings.

you taught me can't be that trusted......should be Keep a little for myself.

Yes it's true in some cases. We must find the one that we can really trust with.

Sometimes it pays not to tell someone everything about you as you never know when they might end your trust, often its hard to keep a secret i would never tell anyone my dearest secrets as they may pass them on without thinking.

I have few people I really can call my bestfriends, but none of them knew all my secret. I'm always trying to be careful, and think of the consequences of letting my secret out. I don't expect them to share their secret to me too, I even don't mind. we share troubles and happiness, we give each other courage and motivate when any of us down, but at the end of the day, we live on our own privacy, secret, whatsoever.

most of the time YES!. since you tell it all to a best friend, he or she can use it against you when time calls for it or i should say when you two happen to declare war to your relationship as friends.