Romance is still in my marriage after being together over 14 years

That is awesome that you two can be so romantic with each other after 14 years. My wife and I have been together for 14 years as well and the romance has definitely left our marriage. We have had a rocky time over the years. My wife has suffered with a lot of depression and other issues over the years and this has had a big impact on me and our relationship. We are now currently dealing with a lot of these issues and are having some counselling. We are trying to spend more quality time with each other alone as this has not been easy to do over the years and we got into the habit of doing things in life that we enjoyed separately from each other. Married couples need to enjoy the time that they spend together. We fell into the trap of our time together being about stressful things like running the business and our family. We are now spending time together doing enjoyable things as well and are looking into more things that we can enjoy together as a couple.

As I was reading this, I was having goosebumps.. It is not because I find your situation gross or corny, I can feel the love between you and your hubby through my bones. I think I can cry. I am wishing and praying my marriage would be like this, too, even when I'm wrinkly and old.... Ijust can't help feeling soooooo happy for you ,Jugs.

that is so sweet but I still had it in my marriage for 42 years

Congratulations.You are a very lucky lady. We(other woman) need to get this guys DNA so we can cloan him as quickly as possible. We need more good ones out here. You take good care of him. Yep. He is a keeper and there aren't alot of those around now days. Numbers are getting lower and lower.

Hello my friend jugsjugs Ji, So nice of you for disclsing privacy. I am with you and you too will sail to my way. We have completed more than 40 yrs now, but my hubby never spares me and we always live together, with all Yes and NOs. I wish you all the best. May God bless You and have a great time.

That's so sweet. It's a very good thing that your husband is doing all those stuffs for you because in his own little constant ways, he wants to show you that he still wants to sustain a healthy and loving relationship. Keep it up jugsjugs!

How sweet....you must be lucky to have a husband whose love never seems to fade. The years of togertheness only add more spices to the bond of marriage.

wow ...thats nice to hear...i Congratulate you...for having such nice treatment and nice hubby...hats off to your relationship for such a long period !!!

Hello jugsjugs, it is nice to hear that you and your husband never lose the spark and romance after several years of marriage. I think romance doesn't and shouldn't end after marriage, it should always be there and nurtured. Indeed, your husband is so sweet. I am happy to know that their are couples who survived the trials they had been through and continue to be happily being together.

hello jugsjugs, that's something good to hear of. you're lucky to have such a husband like that, you have no regrets now in marrying him. i hope he do that every single day, and hope that you don't get bored for him doing that for you. not all husbands do that when they get older. i can tell, he really does love you.

Glory BE ! at least there is one good man left ! hang on to him !

That's fantastic! I'm glad to hear this..they say some things get better with age..

That is simply lovely and your husband is very sweet and I am very happy for you both. my husband and I have been married 33 years and the romance is still in our marriage. The littles things mean a lot. Take care Snow

i think this is not just romance. its his love on u. he dont wants u to work for him. instead he wants to work for u. that shows his love and effection he is having on u. it'll not depends on age and experience of married life.

That's beautiful, Jugs. Sounds like you found a keeper for sure. I have a friend whose husband is romantic like that and they've been together for years. It's rare and you are so lucky! Relationships like yours are a real inspiration!

yes, you are lucky to have such a person in your life. Many women in the world are suffering due to problems in their marriage. People may have spent many years living together but the love between them has dried out. Being together also they are apart. They feel lonely even though they are together. Most of the men take their wives for granted and thus they attract a lot of problems in their married lives. They get into extra marital relationship and mess up their lives. You are very lucky that your husband still loves you. Give him all the love that he deserves. And love him always.

Wow, it's good for you. You are so lucky. Can you tell me you can make your husband to do that? Do you have any secrets to build your good marriage? I hope I can do that after I got married.

Wow that's nice, you are lucky. You know, relationship like yours is hard to find nowadays. So you should try hard to maintain it by reciprocating the love and thoughtfulness of your husband.Good luck.

That's good to hear. I think it is lovely if romance is still present in long-term relationships. I have been with my husband for 13 years though he isn't very romantic, but there are some small gestures I appreciate like buying me my favourite chocolate bar without me asking him to!

felt happy that there is romance is there still in your married life.i think so that as the years go on there is more understanding and more love between husband and wife.