when u feel that urs life partner not love to u?

Love is stable like sun. Some times misunderstandings, lack of patiences, anger hide the love like clouds. in this short period of time we things a lot and make us unhappy. Most of the time I also face this. At early stage I also find it difficult. Now I am above 40 and i have been married more than 10 years. I am used to this problem. When he laughs i also laugh with him. If he is not in good mood I just ignore. The time is mine. i use the time to develop me. I have no time to sit and cry. Tremondus problems and tasks. The most important tallent is forgeting tallent.

Yes when the life partner try to avoid you than you can feel that the your partner not love you.

Well I am a divorcee, when there is no mental compatibility amongst partners then same thing happens what you have said. That leads to separation. So it is always misunderstandings which come in between partners. Same happened with me as well.

Women and men approach love in a different maner Vaishali. Wives are likely to be disappointed with the love shown by husbands and there would be moments when they feel that the husband does not really care .His needs are met and that is all. This feeling is likely to arise especially in the early years of marriage and when there is a lot of difficulty adjusting with each other.It calls for a lot of adjustment in marriage and whoever is the dominant partner tends to get a say[some women may object but this is the case in many Indian households and when the woman finds it totally intolerable she leaves.Our Indian men somehow do expect some sort of obedience frm their wives and probably their financial upper hand may also be a reason. When men have work pressures and also pressure from parents and siblings then the situaton becomes even more difficult. One thing I can tell you-- expectations from a husband and the lack of fulfilment which leads to disappointment is one important reason.

hi vaishali, it is common in the family and in life of family,some times the wife have to adjust and some time the husband have to adjust,they have to understand each other and they have to respect their life partner's wishes,relatives,activities and everything,if other life partner do some mistakes,it is better to ignore their mistakes,have a nice day

thats normal that sometimes husband and wive dont understand each other. is normal bcs we all have different thoughts and see things different. anyway they must talk to solve their problems that way they can be happy and have a good life together^^ that is normal not just between husband and wife but also between bf and gf and with friends too^^

i u understood your husband very well than a small change in his behavior can be noticed and how politely he behave with the wife in every situation could make out that whether he has still love in your wife.