If I were a boy...

@lbbaby (489)
China
July 1, 2010 10:25pm CST
If I were a boy, I swear I'll be a better man. This is a lyris from Beyonce "If I were a boy". Actually, I'm glad that I'm a girl. I know that some people in the world change to be the opposite by operation. Do you think it's necessary or it's the right thing? They said that they should be male or female but were given birth to the opposite. Welll, I never thought of that. But anyway, I respect them because they made the decision by themselves. Have you thought of that?
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@Joshuael (109)
• China
2 Jul 10
If we could transform our body freely and harmlessly,I'd like to try a change of gender.Why not to experience new way of life?But I cannot change my body harmlessly.Anyway I wouldnot hurt my body.That is not healthy.I do what the nature tend to allow me to do.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
2 Jul 10
Yes, you're doning the right thing.
• United States
3 Jul 10
I do not understand it but i think there is evidence the condition is real and think this decision is personal and should be done with the guidance of a medical doctor and other mental health professionals. Many have been very happy with their decision however many others have been devastated mentally when the consequences turn out not as expected.In particular men who have severed that one important organ have suffered extreme trauma with the loss of this very important body part. I think most men cannot possibly understand how a person born a man would decide to take this most drastic step. Do you think that this would be and acceptable form of weight loss for a well endowed man? lol Funny but I have thought it would be easier if I was a woman as woman seem to yield some advantages not afforded men however, back to this important human organ, this would be the one drawback that would haunt me. Nature might have given us different desires and outlooks on male-female relationships but to turn nature on its head by gender manipulations seems risky to me.
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
I'm glad of the way I am a male. If being a girl seem happy, well being a boy is interesting. As a male I am not limited to cleaning myself all day long and taking much time to figure out what to wear. I require less beautification which is good knowing that I am lazy. The best thing is that we boys can urinate without having to sit lol
• United States
2 Jul 10
If I were a boy,I want to be a soldier... Exciting experience...
2 Jul 10
When I was still in my mothers womb my parents were told that I was gonna be a girl. Everyone bought girl stuff. Everything in pink. My name was to be Samantha. My mom even questioned the doctor once I was birthed. I've often felt like a letdown because everyone wanted a girl. I've often wondered what it would be like to be a girl but never went as far as thinking of changing it. I believe whatever God intended you to be is how you are born. Oh, and my first child was beautiful baby girl. So, even though I let them down 29 years ago I made up for it ten fold.
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Maybe if i will be reincarnated in second life i still want to choose being a girl. Cause i want to be pampered by a man. But if i will become a boy then maybe i will get the chance to experience on how to do things that usually man can only do. I will discover how they handle their fear on their way and how they cry, what makes them cry and what are those things that really makes them cry cause i seldom see a man crying.
• China
2 Jul 10
WOW,I have never thought like that before.I like my born gender very much because I love wearing dress,having long hair and wearing high-heel shoes.Meanwhile,I think maybe men have more pressure on their shoulders in society and they couldn't always show their internal real expression as they want all the time.That is a bit miserable for me to some extent in my eyes.Whatever,I admire those who are brave to change their born gender to the opposite by means of operation very much.It is a very long-term process with lots of pain definitely.
@wizteen (502)
• India
2 Jul 10
its a natural human tendency to desire what we don't have. but i think it should never overpower our sense of satisfaction for who and what we are.
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
We should appreciate what and who we are, however we can't criticize or judge those who wants to be of the opposite of who they are. I guess, if I were a boy, my advantage is that i could court girls, whereas if I am a girl I cant or is awkward to court a guy...
• China
2 Jul 10
How I wish if I were a girl..But I will never change that through the operation as I think we should never change ourselves, god chose us, our gender.
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
I am just so thankful that my parents made me as a girl. =P I get to dress up more than men. I get to color my nails with different colors, not only black. I get to wear skirts. I get to give birth to a new creation - LOL. I get to see things differently than how men see them. I get to clean out my repro system thru monthly periods. And so many other things.. If I was born a boy, I'd feel thankful for it to and enumerate the good things I get from being a boy. I don't have anything against gay people. I do not only mean gay as jolly, happy, cheeful, but yes, you're right. There are just some things in life we are in no control of. Let's enjoy our freedom here on myLot =)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 10
yes, i feel sometimes that if i were a girl i would be a better person. i would be able to do a lot of good in this world. but the grass is always greener on the other side.
@lythfang (22)
• Singapore
2 Jul 10
Well i think everyone got their freedom of choice to choose who they wanna be. For me i don't mind if any of my friends done any operation. I respect their choices.