Are you a tough mom or an easy going one.?

I would say that I am a tough mom, I believe that you have to be. But I also believe that not to the point to where your kids fear you. I want my kids to know that while mom has her fun days and can be easy going but I also want them to know that when I speak they are to listen and to respect me. I am not trying to brag up my kids(okay yes I am)but I have good kids, I have been complimented numerous time about how well behaved my kids are and that really makes me feel good. My husband and I try really hard to keep them respecful to not only their father and I but to all adults. I think that is one thing that the kids are missing now a days is the "fear" and respect for their elders. There has been times when the kids have told me that I am mean but there has been many more I love yous so I can deal with the occasional your means. My kids both have a chore, curfews, bed times, we limit their computer,tv and video game time. We are very strict when it comes to where they go and who they are with and that will never change no matter how old they get and I know as they get older that will get harder and they will fight me more and more but I fully believe that when they get older and have their own children they will be thankful that I was strict and tried to keep them on the right path.

Mostly I think I'm a tough mom. I make them do chores and they get punished if the chores aren't done right. I don't let them watch too much TV or play video games often. I yell at them if they get too noisy in the house or car. Though I do take them places like playgrounds and pools to let them just be kids and to be wild and hyper. It has paid off so far, they're fairly well behaved kids and when we're in public I'm often complimented on how well behaved they are. I am proud of that.

I am an easy mom and I try to make life for my daughter easy and comfortable but it is because she only has me, nobody else...

I am a mother of two children.My elder son is at the career building point.I do everything for him, so that at this point he can concentrate more for his future career.I am at ease when he demands anything for his career need. But I am very tough when he neglects his duty which may hamper him in future.So he always obeys me knowing that I am his great well wisher. Sometime I am very friendly with him and sometime very tough,which depends on situations. He tells me everything and I too listen carefully everything that he explains.

ya even i am tough for my daughter for food and for studying .even i am tough about her cleanness and she always me.but other than i love my daughter very much .

Being a mother we should always be tough.Ya i am unmarried but i am tough for my sister for not studing and more tough when careless.but in other hand she is my sister and i love her much.

To be honest I am a little bit of both. I tolerate some things, and something's I just will not tolerate. I know that kids need tough love when growing up, but sometimes you have to be a little easy going with them.

I am tough as well as easy going mom . When my kids wont listen to me or dont behave properly or dont do their homework then I become little tough mother but in feeding them ...as this is the most toughest job for me and I know if I become tough then they just start crying and wont eat anything so I just feed them in play mode way .Normally I am easygoing with them when they do little mischief at home or playing .

As a mom you have to be tough, at times. But, you also have to pick your battles. It is important to know what your kids are doing, and who their friends are. As far as being tough when your kids don't eat properly, it's important that kids learn to eat healthy early on, that way this will become their way of life. Homework is another area where you have to stay on your kids. Become involved with their school work by doing it with them or creating games that will challenge their learning; this can become a family activity, and make them more interested in their school work. The most important thing is to love your kids and that they know your love is unconditional.