Should I feel guilty opening my own business?

@ladynetz (968)
Canada
July 2, 2010 5:26pm CST
I think that opening my own business is a great thing.Have the courage to do it and follow my dream. But from time to time I have the feeling that my family does not agree, as if it's taking time from them - even though is not true.I do everything for them as up to know. Any advice how to deal with it?
4 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
3 Jul 10
I think it's great to be able to start a business. If that's something you love doing, if that's your dream, why not. Your family may just be afraid that the returns would not be enough for you to support them as you have unlike a normal pay where you would be assured to receive at the end of each month. That makes sense too. I think you should give a thought on this. Why not start something small where you don't have to loose a lot if it doesn't work but at the same time keeping your present job until your business is big enough to support you and your family.
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@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
3 Jul 10
I did start it small and from the home.I still have my full time job,did not quit.And I do everything in the house - they don't really help...
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
4 Jul 10
I'm so sorry to hear this. You seem to be thinking about a lot of things. I think it's just too many for you. Perhaps for now, you should be concentrating more on your work and your business. I'm not saying that your family is not important. But I think at this time your work and business should have more of you. Your work, your business, Carry on with what you are doing, go slow if you may, but just go on! Take care and good luck obviously!
@LeeHolt (433)
2 Jul 10
Hey there, If you don't mind me asking, what kind of a business is it that you are opening? And why is it that you get the feeling that your family does not aprove of this? I think it's a great thing that you are going ahead and opening your own business, and i've recently (3-4 months ago) done this myself and it's very hard work (I wont lie to you) but if you need any help, I'll be sure to help (If I can!). It's a really great step forward in life, and will give you so much more freedom and hapiness, you really need to talk with your family members and find out why they don't like it (If this is actually the case) as, if you ask me, this is pretty selfish to take away such a great oppertunity from you. Please, go ahead! Lee.
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@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
3 Jul 10
I do chocolate flowers, candy arrangements and stuffed balloons - for every occasion, any budget. Also I can customise the bouquets to any wish - colour, size,shape. My family thinks that I won't be making money only a bif mess in the hous - even though I keep my things pretty much organized. If you'd like, please go on "my profile" and check out my site. Any help, suggestion or comment - welcome. What do you do? Can I help anyhow? Please contact me directly if yes.(from my profile) Thank you for answering.
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
I don't think you should be guilty in opening a business.if it will make you happy,then go for it.it is unavoidable that your family will be worried.you should explain to them that opening business is a big risk.it may work,it may not.explain to them that even if it doesn't work,you will learn a lot from the experience.
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@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
3 Jul 10
Good idea! Thank you!
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
15 Jul 10
Hello ladynetz, I have one question for you who is living your life... you or parents? I think it is you. If you are over 18 then you can do what ever you want. I know you want there support and blessing... could it be they may be jealous... they may be looking out for welfare and not go in huge debt which they maybe liable for. You write a up plan on what items you need ... how you will be them... how you will them and what your profits are and how you will put profits back into the company... how many employees you want dwon the road... show how you will fiance your business opportunity... if it does not work how you will pay back the money from the loan. Let your parents read the plan and listen to there suggestions does not mean you have to incorporate all of them... maybe one or two to make them feel apart of your success. Thanks and have a great day! Sincerely Unique16