am i that easy to forget
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
July 3, 2010 11:03pm CST
THEY SAID YOU'VE FIND SOMEBODY NEW
( you did not tell me that you already fall out of love with me)
BUT THAT WON'T STOP MY LOVING YOU
( I still love you eventhough you don't love me anymore )
I JUST CAN'T LET YOU WALK AWAY
( I will not let you go,that easy...)
Are you that person who can easily forget what was being shared together,when you already want that person out in your life?
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12 responses
@mcabiles (44)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
No! I just got out of a painful separation. My gf which I have 2 kids gave me up for another guy. Still love her though. We've been together for 4 years and it's not easy to let that go.We shared dreams and promised we will be together till we grow old. But now seems that's not going to happen anymore. Just have to move on.
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@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
I know it's not that easy. Sharing lots of happiness,having kids but it ended up with another guy is very painful.Four years is long enough,but maybe there is a big reasons why you ended up that way.
But still many of us sometimes still holding on.hoping that we can restore back those memories.I have friend who struggles for 7 long years just to cope up and move on.We know that it's easy to say let go,but it's very hard to do and to forget.
@cobrayogesh (174)
• India
4 Jul 10
well happy mylotting to you too... i ve never had the chance to speak or chat with you but would be cool to do so lol my email id is ethanrouge@yahoo.co.in . damn it looks like a pickup line lol? well u look good even with those braces ..once again happy my lotting cu around
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Yeah,it's in a relationship topic right?So we must talking here love,relationship,letting go and moving on.The topic is AM I THAT EASY TO FORGET. Happy mylotting...:D
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
Yes it's an old song my grandpa fave too.I just put it as topic to discuss here because of some reason.Like forgetting someone who means a lot to you.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
No i'm not that type of person but I don't let it hinder be to become better. My past relationship failures are not to be cried on the hole time. it's where you learn from them and never giving up that somewhere out there there is someone willing to accept you despite of the things that are happening in your life.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
We will learned through heartaches and pains.We become stronger and we become wiser. But sometimes eventhough that person hurts us still we cannot forget that easy the ones you have shared.
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
NO... coz i am a type of person that never fall for the first time in seeing someone, i feel love to someone it may takes time, meaning needs to develop that's why it is HARD for me to forget. I spoke few people who were divorce and one of their reasons is fall out of love.. how can you be fall out of love in marrying someone with kids now? though have to consider that i never been married so i do not know exactly living with someone in one roof in which as a saying, you'll ONLY find it out someone who she/he really they are when you both living together in one house. Maybe it happens when you get involve into someone with a broken heart or feeling depressed or is that what you call it " love at first sight "... how can you love a person that you don't know her/him .. OR is that only an infatuation? someone saying, suddenly in love with other guy/gal, that person is ALLOWING herself/himself to get involve to that person and later on feel love.. meaning she/he didn't know of being faithful to his/her partner? well, come to think of this, why is it then ALLOWING myself to WASTE my time to this kind or person? a lot of people around us... BUT needs to be careful also when looking.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Hello Merma,
We cannot say it unless we been to it.Did you know that I have a friend who is married for 24 long years then suddenly they ended up with divorce?I ask him,his answer is,he doesn't love his wife,he only stayed for that long hoping that the love will grow but he said it did not.But they have 3 daughters.
It did put questions in my mind,how come you have 3 daughters and you doesn't love your wife.Well until now it's a question that never been answered.We must know the person first before we decided to be in that person's life.
We all know that all may change but the memories will be left behind.I must say it's not that easy to forget.
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Dear Elle,
Please be reminded of Al Gore ( former US-vice President).. he was married for 40 years ... now ended for divorce though he haven't say any reason behind on it.. and also READ my statement carefully... most of them were questions that being asked to few people i've known that ended their relation in divorce, also. thinking why it happened and i just put some possible reason. But surely, every one who deal with it needs to move... looking forward and seeing a good future ahead. Though it takes time to heal.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
well i dont think is that easy to forget someone if you really love this person but i think that if you have someone that cares for you everytime and is always there for you sooner or later you might fall in love with this person^^ thats what i think. anyway sure people dont forget that easy what they shared in the past even if sometimes they want to^^ is not easy^^
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
Yes I do believe in that,it's not that easy to forget someone whom you shared some precious moments and that time you did love that person so much.
@jjstare (97)
• India
12 Jul 10
Hi re Glad to here that you have choosen very nice and sensitive topic. I was in very much feeling after going through this topic, but I dont like to share mine as i was very much depressed of my love. But eventhough its painful i feel happy and i would say i still love her in my heart.. forever.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
4 Jul 10
For me something that i cherish i dont want to love my love of life not for any reason, i will never betray her, i shall give her everything she needs.and i have in turn got her unforgotten love. it is not easy to forget someone who em you shared everything in life. love as you can say is a chain of love that binds us of who we are. people who have never experienced dont even worth of love.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Hello Fireheart,
Thanks for sharing here also,that's your rule in life I do hope that you can fulfilled what you said.We cannot deny the fact that there is some test in a relationship.I do hope when it comes to you,you can handle it.
@typeandclick (190)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
It takes a long time for me to lose my feelings on a person. That happens only for some reasons like maybe our relationship is not working out good anymore or maybe because I already fall in love with another person. And when the time comes that I no longer want a person, because I already fall in love with some new, well yes, I can easily forget the memories I shared with that person because for sure my mind is now captured by that someone new.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Forgetting someone who leaves so many footprints in our heart is not that easy to do.Yes, I do agree with you. Falling inlove with someone else will not be happened if there is no wrong in a relationship.But sometimes we just suddenly fall inlove to someone just just passes by,maybe love has it's own mystery.
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@yoursjannat (839)
• India
4 Jul 10
Hi elle,
However casual the relationship would be to somebody,it's not easy to forget,neither it's easy to wipe out things that has been shared together to them who are emotional and truthful to the relationship.But the truth is that you've to move on after giving an amount of time to come back and to make yourself get organised or composed once again.Please,don't even think even in your utter desperation that "am I that easy to forget?",because that will lead you think about him.her over and over again.And why do you think like this?Let him/her think what he/she has missed.
Thanks for raising the topic
Happy MyLotting!!
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Hello,
Thank's for sharing your thoughts also.Yes I agree we cannot easily wipe out someone when we know that during those relationship we are very truthful.I must say that when I do get inlove with someone I do gave my all,but suddenly it ended up nothing also.Letting go,moving on is easy to say but hard to do.And maybe yes at first it's hard but sometime we must learned how to.
As human we all experience it,but we should always say life must go on.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Little bit emotional,maybe there are people who are like that.You said you are a person who keeps memories,eventhough it hurt you still a little bit.That's your choice maybe that memories is very dear to you that's why you don't want to forget it.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Jul 10
No i cannot forget the moments spent togather...But it was a mutual undersatnding and life has to go on. Now i cant think of anyone apart from my wife. even if she decides my move apart from me...i will support her but i will not let her alone. I she is in love with someone else and wants to part with me...i will make sure if that person is the right person in her life. But i have trust on my love that whatever may come...nothing can come between us.
