merma1267

@merma1267 (130)

Philippines • Age 56

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is there anybody would maintain real relationship with others?

Chandra Sekhar @sekhar2007 (133) • India 27 Aug 10

please respond me

real

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merma1267 YES.. i am. as we both trying to fix things so that our relationship will maintain as longer as we can though we do not know in the future, on what will happen then.

27 Aug 10

Do you call your friends with different "make names"?

trishasantos @trishasantos (1297) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

I have 5 friends from my previous work. We're all 6 girls. We call each other from different "make names". I call one, Wish Heart, Loves, Hugs, Dearest, Beh. Wish Heart calls me Wish Heart, Hugs calls me Kisses, Dearest calls me...

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merma1267 YES... i called other friends of mine " sis " sister for short, " buddy ", " boy" even she is a girl.

26 Aug 10

Saddest Local Story I've Read In A While

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 26 Aug 10

I don't mean to depress people, really I don't. I just wanted to share this story with you all. The article itself will tell you all you need to know about this young woman and the fact she killed hersef. I feel so sorry for the...

suicide

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merma1267 Yeah! in your side or point of view or even other people who did NOT face a BIG problem or distress in life could hardly understand why there are few people wants to take their lives no matter that other's feel and think THERE IS HOPE. We easily said...

26 Aug 10

Do you want to become a vegetarian or remain nonvegetarian?

monalily @monalily (380) 23 Aug 10

I am nonvegetarian. and i want to change because a few days before i was feeling guilty of being a nonveg and realised that somehow i am commiting a sin. Emotions is somethinh which plays huge role in human decision. personally i...

nonveg

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merma1267 could be nice eating vegetables BUT we still NEED a protein to our body. YES, assuming you love animals BUT then NO one could ever be said that's the curl thing to kill other animals that is intended to be eaten by people. Everybody has it own purpose in...

23 Aug 10

Hostage Taking Going On Right Now

candyfairy21 @candyfairy21 (2039) • Philippines 23 Aug 10

There is a live hostage taking happening right now. I do not know the full story why this soldier took a whole tourist bus hostage. What triggered him we don't know? We heard shots inside the tour bus perhaps he had been killing...

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merma1267 That is what an inconsiderate person and unmanly attitude. He wants something to be popular, i guess just like before..all the while children loves him coz he support that ministry where the kids being enrolled, so what's the purpose to be known on what he has...

23 Aug 10

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Remove LOVE in this world?What would you Think will Happen?

melmabb @melmabb (579) • Philippines 23 Aug 10

We all believe that Love binds us all,If there is Love then there will be understanding,Humility,Forgiveness,Fairness,Giving,no Envy,Helping,all the Positive things in a Relationship...What WILL HAPPEN IN THIS WORLD IF LOVE is not...

love

relationship

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merma1267 Nothing !! no too much population. less people less crime.. the earth will vanish.

23 Aug 10

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10 years relationship cant last forever..

renzmago @renzmago (64) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

i just heared a story in the radio about a 37 year old woman that has a 10 years relationship and was left by her husband because of a hooker. it sucks when i hear this kind of problems in the radio. i hate guys that has no manly...

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merma1267 YES.. 10 years of relationship CANT last forever... have you heard about Al Gore ( vice-President of the USA)... they were 40yrs of marriage (as living together) BUT now ongoing for divorce. sometimes,we asked why.. BUT ... knowing someone can only be...

20 Aug 10

Would you tell your best friend that you saw his/her lover dating someone else?

ShenniLy @ShenniLy (45) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

I was in a situation like this. I saw my best friend's boyfriend dating with another girl. What's worse is both of them are my friends. The guy saw me and was totally anxious upon knowing that I saw him; all he did is just to make...

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merma1267 I am going to confront the GUY first, have to know the reason why she cheated my best friend. Have also to think, maybe they just friends, knowing the reality what's really going on.. then have to talk secretly about the other girl to confirm her relationship...

20 Aug 10

Why is everyone in a hurry to get married?

JoanSweet @JoanSweet (20) 11 Aug 10

why is everyone in a hurry to get married?why does everyone expect everyone to be married at a certain age? Have you guys considered the change in lifestyle and responsibilities attached to getting married? Do you think its all...

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merma1267 i guess, NO definitely answer for this question coz it depends in a person why she/he would like to marry at the early age. Few says, they want to have kids on their early age so that the children can possibly be their friends in life..looks like the age gap...

11 Aug 10

How long before it is ok to move in with somone who's more than a friend?

Ceekay1989 @Ceekay1989 (323) • United States 9 Aug 10

talk to me people, how long do you think is an appropriate amount of time, to make tat big move amd live together, 2 days, 4 weeks, 6 months, 5 years, never, after marraige?? let me know what you think, share your comments,...

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merma1267 Not too short and not too long. It is you that can only determine on this matter. What is important you'll be able to know that person as much as you can THOUGH not easy. knowing someone is not an easy thing to know ONLY when you both living together in ONE...

10 Aug 10

Someone texting and your gf/gf caught you how would you tell?

Turingskie @Turingskie (387) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

yesterday while walking at home i saw two lovers fighting in the middle of the street.The guy was angry to his girlfriend because he found out that the girl was hiding something in her cellphone.Suddenly then after he read...

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merma1267 first of all, you are NOT sure if that relationship is gf/bf only, what if already been couple as husband/wife? if that so, how would you feel of being cheated?

6 Aug 10

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Older women with younger men -- yay or nay?

moonchild117 @moonchild117 (1987) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Guys, are you okay with dating older women? And girls, is it okay for you to date a younger man? And I'm not just talking about a year older or younger. Like, 5 years and beyond. My sister's 32 and she seems to be playing sweet...

dating

older women

younger men

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merma1267 EVERYBODY has it own likes and dislikes, same with of being attracted to a younger or older person what is matters most is you are happy to that person, you are both click with each other then go for it. The goal of any relationship is to be happy .. satisfied...

6 Aug 10

Older women with younger men -- yay or nay?

moonchild117 @moonchild117 (1987) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

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merma1267 sweetie, EVERY person has it own like and dislikes, same with being attracted to a younger or older person that you are dating with. What important is your chemistry to that person, if you are click with each then go for it. what is also important to this is...

6 Aug 10

think before you speak

akhileshnigam @akhileshnigam (494) • India 31 Jul 10

i generally think before speaking to anybody ,weather this necessary to speak ,is it hurting sentiments of person ,thus i avoid harsh words and negative comments,how you react

speak

think

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merma1267 Exactly, it's very hurting when you say things against other without thinking of it first. After all, need to analyze first of the situation before you reacted unto it. Sometimes things been so complicated, so we need to be careful to say things to avoid...

31 Jul 10

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to know other person position ,i close my eyes and think i am in his /her place

akhileshnigam @akhileshnigam (494) • India 31 Jul 10

i find many answer of problems ,by doing this things ,and my anger cools down and always find myself at peace,what are your ways to solve interpersonnel problems

imagin

imagination

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merma1267 as you are right to be considerate at ALL times, and able to put yourself on their shoes to understand them. Have to face the reality of INDIVIDUALITY..don't expect too much from others.

31 Jul 10

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