Someone texting and your gf/gf caught you how would you tell?
By Turingskie
@Turingskie (387)
Philippines
August 5, 2010 11:42pm CST
yesterday while walking at home i saw two lovers fighting in the middle of the street.The guy was angry to his girlfriend because he found out that the girl was hiding something in her cellphone.Suddenly then after he read something on the cellphone. The guy fly his palm in the face of the girl. I want to help the girl but i know i don't have the right to join in their fight.however i just left and i saw the girl was crying in the middle of the street.any comment guys?
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15 responses
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
first of all, you are NOT sure if that relationship is gf/bf only, what if already been couple as husband/wife? if that so, how would you feel of being cheated?
@Turingskie (387)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
I'm sure about it the guy used to say that " what kind of girlfriend are you"
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
6 Aug 10
Violence in any relationship is big no no. But when it happens to someone on the street, we may not be able to help. That is the sad part.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Aug 10
Hi, Turingskie. This is bad. And sad too. Knowing me, I would have secretly made a phone call to the police about what I saw. This is domestic violence and this is a serious issue. It is sad that men hit on women for things. If I were this girl, I would leave him alone. He must have read something that related to her cheating with someone else. This is very sad news..
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
7 Aug 10
It's difficult to say what texting the girl texted, maybe the text content made the misunderstaning by the boy. My husband does not check the content of my cell phone, when I was texting, he will ask whom you text, however he won't check what content I texted. We won't fight for texting. I am free.
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
6 Aug 10
The guy acted wrong. Doesn't matter what was on the cell, he should have kept his calm and just walked away. Or at least let the girl explain herself.
@Turingskie (387)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
yeah i know the guy was wrong, he must not hurt the girl at all :(
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
What a cruel guy. If the guy caught his gf texting with someone else, it is still improper to slap her. He is exaggeratedly or over acting to slap his gf without making or allowing her to explain. Besides, when a guy cheats, girls do not act that way.
I have caught my bf texting and talking to another girl so many times. That is not new to me. Of course it is hurting on my part, but he always assures me that I am the only girl in his life. Of course, I know that he has someone else, but we talk it out. There are times that I am temped to get the girl's calls and talk to her, but I want a more civil conversation. Guys are guys...It seems like cheating is a normal thing to them. What matters to me is that he comes home and loves me much.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
6 Aug 10
Even if the girl hid something she was responsible for, the guy didn't have to hit the girl. He could have just left her, if she felt guilty she would apologize on her own and the rest would depend on the guy. I see no point in hitting the girl, it must have been an ugly situation.
@tincabzh (173)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
well, violence is a no no
though we caught something wrong guys should never
hurt ladies..
I have been a buttered girlfriend before
so if ever i will see something like that
I will definitely help the girl..
regardless of what she did..
cuz it wasnt right to hurt someone!
@goldenrose2 (281)
• India
6 Aug 10
Being a lady, you did an excellent job to interfere within their problem because it might run to the wrong direction direction in the heat of the moment.
You also stay some more time with her to dissolve the problem if she made any mistake and she should forget the poor incidents which is a normal matter within a couple.
It will be better for you also if you forget it.
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
Did you real saw them, or it is you whom your describing here? Just kidding man. It seems you don't just saw it. since you really know the details of the event.
You should had helped her, you do have a right. That is physical injury already. It is the guy who don't have the right, He don't have the physically hurt that woman. The woman may be wrong about the text, but she don't deserve it. And yet, who did you know that the guy is on the right stand by simply watching them fight on the street? I bet it is you your talking about here and not a fight you just witness on the street. :)
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
They are just gf/bf and the guy has no right to hurt the girl.Why not talk it in a nice way,so that they will patch those things.Violence is not accepted in a relationship.
@catycat1985 (188)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
i guess u just need to be honest to him, its the bets policy so that he can trust you too, if the text message has no malice then theres no way for u to lie, its very important in a relationship to be really be transparent. if u want to be loved, respected then prove to him that youre also worth of it.
@Goldamier (104)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Oh gosh.,that guy is definitely stupid. Maybe we did some mistakes or lies but it doesn't give an indication and authority to hurt us physically especially in public.
@AnnaLorraine (5)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
..i dont like that kind of attitude everything will be solved with an good conversation..