do you believe internet love?
@chinafiremanmenghui (1385)
China
56 responses
@JolinC (175)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Yes. I do.
I know there are a lot of people who lies and can't be trusted over internet. But there are actually people behind the computers that put their real feelings into learning about someone.
There are a lot of people who met their girlfriend/boyfriend online, and get together in real life. Which I really admire.
One thing I like about love someone you met on the internet because you have never seem each other and you learn about each other through chatting and learn more about their personalities and characteristics rather than appearance.
But there are also cons to it, as you don't see each other everyday face to face (unless you have move together). It is a really bad feeling if you love someone so much yet you can't see them, hug them, or being with them at all.
There are people you can trust, and there are people who just fooling around, so be cautious at the same time :)
@supersach (1523)
• India
17 Nov 06
Yes, I am open for it. I think its a good way to meet people. In physical world, we are so much fascinated by the looks and appearance. But if you like someone on the Internet, you like him/her for their personality which is more important for me.
But there are alos lots of problems associated with it. You are not really sure if the other person is giving you the true information about him/her and at the same time, he/she is also thinking the same about you. Sometimes people don't show their real age and lure people into thinking that they are talking to a person of the same age. I think girls in particular, need to be very careful about Internet relationships and shouldn't trust anyone that quickly and shouldn't give away their address and things like that.
@koltrone (264)
• United States
17 Nov 06
yes I do, I wont be with my hubby right now If I dont. The pain is being apart from each other that alot of couple can't bear the reason why some relationships dont last and if you knew what are the paperworks you need to accomplished you will probably think twice if you really want to do it or just find someone else closer lol yes physical looks play the big part, I dont think you can love a person without even liking him/her first :) In our case we searched for true love, not convenience lol
@comradevic (230)
• Nigeria
19 Nov 06
Of course not. Love comes to being when people who like theirselves meet and find something interesting about theirselves. Internet love is nothing but infatuation. How can you fall in love with someone who you have never met? Most of the time, it hurts because those people in dating sites turn out to be jerks telling lies about themselves.
@mtgrlz_zerocool (708)
• Romania
18 Nov 06
internet love isn't real...you just talk with that person, but you can't kiss that person, you can't have a real relationship with that person only a virtual one
@mikee_meeh (168)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
There actually relationships online that work. My husband and I met online but for few days after meeting online, we met. But if it go on for long, I just don't think it will survive. Because having such kind of relationship is very hard to keep but still possible.
@pendragon (3349)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I met my gf online and we've lived together for nearly two yrs now, it's never been better!!