Simple words can have great impact on people

dear anna, I am not very good of expressing my thoughts and emotions by words,i am more on acts. Yah,if i want to say sorry,i do say the word..but when i said i love you,i rather show it to make my loved ones feel the intensity. I seldom say the word without the action. When i asks forgiveness,i can kneel down to beg for it. And when i say thanks,it is always with a smile. (gosh...i am getting emotional...i can feel my heartache)

Besides the great impact it leaves good impression and is just plain polite.

Indeed, words are very powerful and can establish strong connections between people. However if you say something to a person you have to put love in what you say. Saying something to someone without really meaning won't do any good. A person can tell if what you are telling them comes from inside you or if you just tell them only to create an illusion that you are a good friend to them.

All is true and make a difference sweetie, no matter how small. But, uumm, will thismake a difference as well? TATA.

i say that you did a good job by pointing this out a lot of the small things in life get left out & go unnoticed.. but it's a good thing that there are still some people out there who do care about such things

It's risky giving compliment with someone else because delivering a word of wisdom is depending on what mood they have for an instance that the reaction of once person is the kind that goes in one ear and over the back of the fence.We're more apt to trust someone who says nice things about its a good feeling.Flattering! but what if they aren't listening and get you face to face a good compliment turns out the other way around the impact on people is not good specially when they dint hear properly so the impact gets bad either ways there is good things and bad things that's the impact of realization.

I agree. I teach my children about this to help with this very person to person interaction. I have always been very polite to to others and my children have as well. I say I love you often and smile pretty much every-time I see someone. Many times I find that others are shy from this and wont meet my eyes. That makes me feel uncertain about their motives. Positive praise is often heard in my home and negative is not encouraged. Also just being nice to others by holding a door for someone thats really big with me. Also rating people here that have taken the time to give full feedback is a nice thing as well, I think anyways.

Absolutely! One makes more friends using this kind of language. Good to build people up and give them respect and encouragement. As you say, it costs nothing to speak that way. Make the day more pleasant for everyone. At the end of the day we'll feel a lot better and sleep better too. Thank you for remind us of that.

Hi and hello or greeting words are already fine for me. When people say please or sorry, I take it that they are people with character. I love you and Thank you are phrases that come out of the mouths of people who are kind and gracious.

Hi anna, all these words we all are using frequently depends on the situation. Each and every word has its weight and it will impact a lot on both (to whom you said). Very warm and pleasant atmosphere you can create with these words, and also make that two persons close. People will get a good impression by others with these words, they are very simple but are very emotional words and well mannered words. We must teach our children to use these words. And about smile, it is another great thing, if you smile at some one, you can build a good relationship with all our family members, friends. For working people it is more good to have a smile on their face, it makes others also smile and this smile work on the body positively, away from the tensions, stress etc., Nice post anna.

yeah..you're right........these words actually..soothes or promotes a person... giving a compliment strengthens....their mind,and body... and a smile is good for those who wears it and also those who see it....nice... I make sure..to wish / say sorry to the circumstance...and always put a smiling face.. I think its the secret of ma success..in life.... thanks for starting the topic..... have a great day/night..........

Thanks, anyway.

This is so true. I am thankful that I was raised to be polite and gracious to everyone. I know here in America people take it or leave it when it comes to being polite. I have found in a number of instances it has opened doors for me because someone noticed that I was polite. I am able to approach anybody and start a conversation because I am easy going and pleasant in my address, and enthusiastic about people. Thanks for this discussion subject Vijayanths!

I agree. Plus adding in such nice words will clean up the negative sound pollution :)

You are 100% right on this. I have always believed that if you give someone a smile that they will smile back at you. You never know you could have smiled at someone who was hurting and that smile you gave them let them forget the pain for a thought. Im sending a big smile your way. Hope that it will make you smile back. Have a great day vijay.

A simple words can make bid changes to a life of person, especially to heir feelings, and some it can add to their confidence, and mostly it can make you happy. . But there simple words also that can hurt somebody else feelings, that can make them mad at you... In all simple words are a BIG thing.

Yes, these words are magic words and should be repeated whenever these is opportunity. I use Sorry and Please very often and thanks is another word which is great to pronunce. I love you is such a great sentence. we should always repeat this agaian and again.

you know what really makes great impact??? its the actions...not the words... even for just a look has something to tell... =D

I agree with you...I use a lot fo these courtesy words....Even as i walk on the road, when i am in a crowd or at a market place....if i haer anyone sneeze i say bless you and they just wonder what i am saying....but people who know it ...just smile and appreciate it.

This is very true. Just with simple words, you can make some one happy or perhaps even make a significant difference to everybody. Specially saying it with all your heart and sincerity, these words are short but are too powerful. As they say, great or big things starts from tiny little things that we do, its like a river can't be completed without a drop. Thanks for the topic. Much respect.