shineyourlight

@shineyourlight (22)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Writing daily diary

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20156) • India 2 Apr 11

Since 1958, while I was reading in class VIII, my dad told me to write daily diary and since then I am writing. I complete it before I go for my shower at 10pm, next pray and sleep. I don't write much, note down my...

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shineyourlight Well, I still keep writing diary today, but not as that daily. Back to the year 2001, when I got graduated from Junior Middle School, two of my 2-yrs long diaries were burned by myself. Inside that, full with a boy's names and all my puppy-love? about...

3 Apr 11

Are you an opera-lover?

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 24 Dec 10

Today, two main names get into my head: the male germline of plant and Andrea Bocelli. Does any of you hear/know about him??? They all say that when God took the visual world from him, he also gave him the world of amazing...

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How do overcome the fear in giving a presentation ?

Onions @Onions (49) • Singapore 8 Oct 10

Everytime when I tried to give a presentation or a talk for my assignments, I tend to give a bad one. I can hear from my voice, a tone that's nervous. I believe the audience also heard that. :( I already tried to rehearse and...

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shineyourlight Be confident is the firstly. Be familiar with what you are going to talk about. well, practice makes perfect. Next time when you stands in front of your audience you can image that they are just a bunch of cabbages they will think nothing even if your...

10 Oct 10

tattoos...WHY?

gjax57 @gjax57 (897) • United States 3 Oct 10

It's not the fact that people get tattoos its why do people put their GF/BF/HUSBANDS names on themselves? I Mean I can understand a neice/nephew/parent/cousn/childs/aunt,uncles name because they will be forever in your life...i've...

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shineyourlight Just tattoo with a bunch of names? wow... I hold the opinion that get yourself a tattoo is a way to expressing yourself to the world. But if engrave the name of exes on your skin is definitely not a way to show your affection or commitment to her/his. Cuz...

4 Oct 10

what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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shineyourlight It is very hard for me to make any choices like this. But I believe some lines I will never cross. Hope I will never encounter this in the future... Thank you.

2 Sep 10

what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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shineyourlight Agree with you in some degree. But I can do this to them. The most positive thing I can do is smile and cry inside. Time will heal this. I still hope they will be happy and keep a long relationship.. Thank you. What goes around comes...

31 Aug 10

what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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shineyourlight this "current" exists in the past, but at that time, she had the idea that the guy and I were together. and Now, they two are together. maybe I should let go, coz I can do nothing but let go.. I just cant believe things are going so fast. It's too soon...

31 Aug 10

what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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shineyourlight Thank you for your sharing. I will learn to accustom to the current situation. At first, I am very very blue about this. I even doubted my values of friend or love... then, I find that there nothing could I do to make any changes about the reality. .. So I...

31 Aug 10

what will u do when your current boyfriend become your best friend's boyfriend??

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 31 Aug 10

I am not sure whether it's suitable or not to talk about this topic here. But I wonder what's your opinions concerning this? He tells me to accept this peacefully. And he also texts me that she says no firstly. Becasue she...

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what does you do the most at home during the summer holiday?

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 9 Aug 10

Most of us will hold the idea that it is never too late to do good to our dear parents, but nobody can predict whether tomorrow is sunny or not... So, my dear fellow students on mylot, what will you do for the most time at...

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shineyourlight gardening is great, I mean, you see, watch these plants grow and do the best for their better growth, bloom, get fruits, and finally seeds..and spread the beautiful little hope to your friends, ha, isnt life amazing???

10 Aug 10

what does you do the most at home during the summer holiday?

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 9 Aug 10

Most of us will hold the idea that it is never too late to do good to our dear parents, but nobody can predict whether tomorrow is sunny or not... So, my dear fellow students on mylot, what will you do for the most time at...

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Am I weird?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85139) • Shingle Springs, California 21 Jul 10

Well, yes I am, but am I weird because I don't like sharing the shower? Seriously, I like my nice hot shower. I don't like having to get out of the stream because somebody else needs to rinse off. Take your own darn shower when I...

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shineyourlight A-ha~~ you are quite normal.. just be relax and enjoy your shower with yourself~~~ :)

22 Jul 10

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Do you mind sharing the reasons why you want to help people?

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 10 Jul 10

The main reason is that it makes me feel I am needed. And this reminds me that my existence will make a difference,trivial though, to the world. So what about you, my dear loving-help-people lotters?

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When did u feel most nervous during taking an exam???

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 6 Jul 10

Hi, my dear fellow student lotters, will u feel any nervous when taking any exams? I dont mean that tricky or cheating thing. Some of my classmates tell me they usually feel very nervous when the teachers handing out the exam...

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shineyourlight It is said that interest is the BEST teacher. Start loving history and you will find something really amazing in the past world. good luck!

10 Jul 10

When did u feel most nervous during taking an exam???

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 6 Jul 10

Hi, my dear fellow student lotters, will u feel any nervous when taking any exams? I dont mean that tricky or cheating thing. Some of my classmates tell me they usually feel very nervous when the teachers handing out the exam...

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Simple words can have great impact on people

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 5 Jul 10

Using simple words like "please", "sorry", "love you", "congrats","forgive me","thanks", "you did a good job" can make a lot of difference in life. You can feel the difference when you start using them. Smiling is an added plus...

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shineyourlight Cant agree with you anymore. If I want to say sth to others, say them from my heart. And this is greatly depending on the person who I am talking to. Concerning the politeness, we should use'sorry','excuse me', 'thanks'etc.. often. Again, If you say...

6 Jul 10

How do you overcome embarrassment?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 27 Jun 10

Embarrassment is an emotional state experienced upon having a socially or professionally unacceptable act or condition witnessed by or revealed to others. It is most definitely most embarrassing if it was witnessed by a lot of...

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shineyourlight I will pretend nothing happened and look around then shift the topic. ha~~~ or just say that "oh.. who is talking right now? I heard a voice just the same as mine... hello? who is imitating me??" haha~~ just find a rather easy&humour way to deal with...

28 Jun 10

Forgive a best friend?

LaLa Leo @mrscallands22 (2851) • United States 27 Jun 10

Could you ever forgive one of your best friends that have betrayed you or lied on you on more than one occasion before in the past?? Especially when you have been there for that person in the most difficult times of their lives...

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shineyourlight Nowadays.. I dont know what is best friend... How to define this term? what is best friend??? I know this very well long ago when I was in my jounor or senior high school time. With those lovely folks we could talk everything and share everything...but now, I...

28 Jun 10

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Did you ever feel like being together with somebody?

shineyourlight @shineyourlight (22) • China 26 Jun 10

I mean I am single, and I feel very great most of the time. But I find that sometimes I want to be with someone, esp after watching a romantic moive..but that's feeling is fleeting rapidly. Have you ever felt like that? Then...

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What language do you want to learn?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 20 Jun 10

Hola! I seriously want to learn how to speak in Spanish and I'm hoping before the year ends that I'm able to enroll in a class. Do you guys think it's possible to learn new language online or let's say by just reading and watching...

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shineyourlight Spanish and German ranks at the 1st and 2nd of my foreign language-learning list. I am dreaming about touring or staying in Europe some day besides foreign language learning can posivitely stimulus our potential on thinking and memorying. I feel I can learn...

21 Jun 10