if you have a daughter and second child is same then will u abort
@akhileshnigam (494)
India
5 responses
@GreatAttractor100 (246)
• United States
8 Jul 10
I am a man so cant really abort, but I would not want a wife that beleives in abortion. Its killing the possibilities before they had chance, nonsense!! :(
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
8 Jul 10
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
8 Jul 10
I always dreamed of having a baby girl and then a few years later a baby boy. I would have been perfectly happy to have had a baby girl and then some years later another baby girl. I wouldn't have been happy to have got six sons and never got a baby girl. I would rather have seven daughters and one son.
In my life I have got a teenage son, a disabled toddler son and a baby daughter. I am so delighted that I have finally got a baby daughter. I am also happy with my lovely sons.
I know abortion would be wrong for me. I wouldn't ever choose to have an abortion. Due to my middle child's disability I was offered an abortion at 36 weeks pregnancy. I said no way. Interestingly two of my friends had scans which said girl and they both got boys. Once a baby is born I love him or her regardless of gender.
It is very sad that some ladies abort when they believe they have the less favored gender. Also some ladies abort for medical reasons like their baby is disabled. I realize that having a disabled baby is not something everyone would be able to cope with. My disabled child is delightful.
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
8 Jul 10
I hate and do not recommend ABORTION.. other than for medical reasons.
.. and, I would say, Do not worry about a girl or a boy. May be, 15 years from now, the GIRLS will be such a demand that you will start getting pregnant again, at that age, to deliver more girls..
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
If my kids have the same gender then that's okay. I will never resort to abortion cause the life of the baby is not mine to take. No human being has the right to do not, especially the mother. There's a reason why God gave to that kind whether he child has the same gender or not. Only God has the right to take the lives of His children. People should stop with the playing God syndrome.