QUESTION! if u are to choose between them, whom will u choose?
By hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
July 7, 2010 11:03pm CST
Let's say there is a girl who has a young foreign bf. He's still a student, and there is another foreign guy of his 40's but not looking old, who is so in love with her and is financially stable.
The girl is in love with her bf - the young guy, but people around her always say she should forget about it, and divert attention and affection to the older one.
What if u are the girl in the situation, what would u do?
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8 responses
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
8 Jul 10
I would look inside myself and decide which one is more attractive to me and let my own feelings decide which one I wanted to be with, afterall no one else around her will be the one who is going to be in her place so why do they get a say who she should be with.
@george000 (166)
• India
26 Jul 10
I will choose for a young foreign student because I will be free to him as he is of same age guy.He will understand my feelings and cares me .Being to get married with same age is some thing interesting.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
i would be with the young one the one i really love^^ is us that must choose the person to love and dont let others choose for us or pressure us to love someone we dont want to ^^ so for sure we must choose the guy that make us happy. not being with one just to make someone else happy^^ i wouldnt even think twice in my decision^^ and for sure i think everyone should choose the same i did or they might be unhappy :(
@edithprofit (117)
• Romania
8 Jul 10
Everyone make their joice...if you want money now, maybe you will choose the older. if you have time to wait that the younger earn same money after college, you should choose the younger.
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
Ask yourself, what is your priority in life. If you are not crippled and able to work, ask yourself which do you prefer, someone financially stable or someone you really love. how can you be happy in life if you're going to marry someone who is ONLY in love with you.. BUT what about you feelings? is it important to have money and yet you are not happy with someone? or you can be happy with someone wherein you can both helping each other in the long run. He will finish his schooling and surely he can get a job.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
8 Jul 10
Hi.... if i was the girl in this situation, i would go with the young guy. The older guy is settled...i would be happy for some time...but waht later...due to the age gap..i would not be able to live happy later. So it sbetter to listen to your heart and be with the young guy rather than the old one.
