What do you look for in a new frined on mylot?
By jak2010
@jak2010 (1550)
Papua New Guinea
July 11, 2010 12:09am CST
What comes first into your mind when you decide to find a new friend on mylot? Do you have nay particular perferences or just anybody who comes before becomes your firend? I mean we are on internet and manytime we only know through our profile etc. Is there anyway we can tell sometihing that get us interested in a friend and start sending request?
9 responses
@rubelynrose102 (115)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
well if they respond to my discussion i will add them as my friends..
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
11 Jul 10
Hi rubelyn rose: I don't usually start new discussions, but when I have started one I usually add the persons with the answers that I consider are the best. These answers are not necessary the ones that I'd like to hear but the ones that makes me feel sure that I'll have an interesting conversation with this person in the near future. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@marguicha (224655)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
THere are two types of people that I usually become friends with. The easiest to make one is the person who wants to earn money. One finds them in money related interests and we become friends to be able to exchange ideas and links that can´t be done in a discusion.
But the real friends are those who share similar interests with me. I read a post and I´m interested. Another day, the same thing happens and I start remembering the name of a person whose answer I found interesting. It is a slow process thatis two sided. The profile checkout is something I do when I´m already interested.
@marguicha (224655)
• Chile
12 Jul 10
I am interested in knowing where they come from, how old they are and what´s thir gender, if possible. It helps me have a better idea of the context of their words.
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
12 Jul 10
Good, I honestly did not see any profiles of my few friends I have on mylot. It is a bit waste of time. I take any friends who asked me for friendship headon. I see them as genuine and good people who want to be good to me. I take them on face value good nice people. I think so far I have five friends and they are nice people. Their discussions are good and we share. You two are included , you are best and unique, my friends. You two have a top day.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
13 Jul 10
Hi Jak,
I don't choose my friends here at myLot. When I get a friend request, I don't feel the need to qualify them coz I won't know anyway their true personality. So I just approve their request. It seems you're new here, and if you are, I'd like to welcome you to myLot. Hope you enjoy your stay here just like the rest of us.
@abitcurious (1422)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
I just add those I have fun with. Sometimes, even if their opinions are not the same as mine I add them because I like the way they participate. Anything funny will surely get a friend request from me.
@abitcurious (1422)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
What we earn from mylot? 
It's not that big but you can't put a pricetag on fun.
It's not that big but you can't put a pricetag on fun.
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
13 Jul 10
All the best, I am not too sure whether you would find a soul mate here in Mylot. The person whom I want to be friend with is a person who answers my discussion points with indept thoughts and who is genuine in his or her discussion. You can tell this from how we contribute to discussions.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
11 Jul 10
Hi jak: I have to say that I don't usually read the other member's profiles. What I usually look before adding someone to my friend list is his/ her answers. I chose the persons that have an affinity or that I know that we could have an interesting conversation later. For me these are important facts to add a friend here, because it's all about discussions and interest what reunite us here. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
