BreakUp

Hmmm... I think this would be up to you but i can help you decide on this one. Try to weigh the good and bad things and consider the consequences. If you are still happy with the relationship, try to win it over again but if he/she refuses, maybe he/she is not really for you. But if there's a good reason behind the breakup, consider it and try to understand why does this have to happen. if it isn't really doing good for both of you then I think you really have to drop it and move on. remember, there are many fish in the sea :) cheer up!

If you don't like him then there is only one thing that you can do is break the relationship with him but if you like him then ask him what is the reason. ummmmm I think you should get another guy because there are so many guys that would be like to be you boyfriend...........Life is so short and are you really gonna spend your short life on only one person who didn't want you in his life...........just think about it........and some time its good for a relation to be apart if he sure like you the he will come to you............

Sorry to hear it didn't work out. I guess you just need this time alone for now to sort things out and think about it. Spend some time alone and reorganize your thoughts. That's all I could say to you right now. I just hope you stay strong.

Hi, cutefem123. I am very sorry about this. Is this what he/she really wants? I am very sorry that your lover is asking for a break up. I hope that you two can stay together...

If you love truly, talk to him and lie with your relationship.

Hi friends You think our relationship might be over. My pain is unbearable. I feel so lost, alone and confused that i feel like crawling in a hole and dying. I want somebody or something to stop the pain so i can feel normal. Because of all that happened, I probably have a million thoughts going through my head. I am wondering when the pain is ever going to stop, Having trouble sleeping at night because of him. Trying to stop crying but the tear just keep coming and at worst possible time. Finding hard to focus on anything , especially work. And what i really think is that this is all some sort of bad dream that i am going to wake up from any moment now and everything will be back to normal. If any of those thought and feelings are familiar to you, you are not alone.

If I were in your shoes, I'd talk to my boyfriend to find out what seems to be the problem. I definitely want to work things out because as much as possible, I'd want to keep the relationship. But in case worse comes to worst, then I'd rather let go and leave everything behind.

well see you need to talk to him and ask him why he has decided to break up with you. sitting quietly will do no good to you. there must be some problem with you two that forced him to take such a step. call him and ask him to meet you. and then looking into his eyes ask him about the reason and tell him how much you loves him. believe me he will not go anywhere..

It seems that he is determined. You should allow him to go. You can't keep him if he doesn't want. Things change in the future. Maybe he'll even come back to you. Do you know WHY he want's to break up with you ?

I know it must be hard but I think you should move on and find some one better that likes you for you.Since staying sad does not help you or any one else.So do not let this keep you down who knows this may be just what you need to find some one better.

why do u think he/she asked for it? any possible reason for it. hope you can give most descriptive explanation coz it depends how you respond to it.

aww im so sorry for it :( did he ask you that in your face? you said you cant answer anything did he say it by sms? ohh god if he didnt say it face to face thats very bad :( anyway you must go talk with him and ask him what happened why he wants to break up bcs you didnt expect that. listen to what he has to say and i wish you can solve things. so sad for what happened :( maybe he change his mind. tell him how much you love him and see. wish you the best^^

sorry for that. But she is asking for breakup give her the freedom. If she loves u truly then she'll be back. if not then she is unlucky. Forget everything and enjoy your life. If she doesn't return then she is not the right girl. There must another girl who is going to be worth of your love. Everything happens for good. Enjoy your life and don't be depressed.

If my lover came and ask to me as same question, firstly I will ask the reason,if he had got another one I will accept for that,if he tell me that he never loves me,I will reply okay,but I cant leave him without asking reason.

Ouch...that must really hurt so bad. I'm sorry my friend that you are in a difficult situation at this very moment. But then you should talk to your lover heart to heart and settle the things. Maybe there is still a chance that you can fix the relationship you had with her or him. Just be reasonable or give her space and time to think things over before committing to break up.

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I'm sorry to hear that.I think what you should do is keeping silent and observe the action of your girlfriend.Don't ask any question to your GF.Keep your dignity.

Hi im very sorry for you , u need to be strong and accept his decision even if you think he is the man of your life. If you force him to stay with you , this wont make him love you but hate being with you and he might be with someone else at your back at the same time. I hope that you can be strong as i know its very difficult but im sure that with time you will say that it was the right decision for both of you.

I am just a newbie here in mylot and I really feel sorry whenever I hear someone getting hurt because of love. I think, you are still lucky enough because he/she did not leave you hanging in the air rather, he/she asked you for a break up. It might be so hurtful but try to look on the brighter side. Maybe he/she is telling you something you should realize about yourself or the way you handle a relationship. It is never the fault of only one person, when a relationship fails. When you get to realize what you did, try not to do it again next time. If your partner is still open for reconciliation, go ahead and discuss things. Sometimes, problems can be resolved when you talk it over. Good luck!