Never happy.....

hi missybear, Don't blame yourself for this strange behaviour...This is human nature. Have you ever seen any person feeling content and satisfied with his/her present condition. we human beings have deep desires for things, but as soon as we get that thing, its importance becomes of zero value and desire for other things pop up. As for you, I think that you are just moody, and so you are wishy washy, which is nice..because person has time to be wishy washy when he or she is happy though you may feel that you are never happy

I guess that's just part of being human. Always wanting what we don't have at the moment. The never ending struggle of wanting. The grass is always greener on the other side. Until we get to the other side and realize that we had it good all along.

It reminds me of what Steve Jobs said recently "...i-Phone is not perfect, I'm not perfect. You know that, I know that..." (Something like that) Are you a perfectionist? The man who said these words above is a real perfectionist. It must be hard to admit his fault. Am I always wishy washy? Yes, I'm definitely the "inperfect" guy. But I used to. I used to stand the situation that I'm not really desired to...

hi missybear! contentment, we humans at one point in our lives experience this.......yeah it's hard sometimes to feel this. It's just so depressing. But then, during this moments, I try to count my blessings so as not to feel so much the negative feelings I have. Good for you that you have someone who sticks it out with you!

Its normal to be wishy washy sometime missybear. Its human nature, we always want the best for ourselves. And it seems as if the best is always at the other side of the fence. I do feel uncertain of what i really want sometimes, but you know what, thats friends are for. They support you and make you confident with the choices that you made. So missybear, all you need to do now is be greatful and cherish the things that you have now before its gone tomorrow..best of luck..~

Yes that's true, when it is summer we want to be chilly to have winter back because of the heat. When winter comes and it is freezing outside we want summer where is warm and sunny. You might be just bored or depressed cos period is coming? Or it is just a period of our lives when we have our moments of joy and sadness, it's human nature to be like that sometimes. We should be happy to have the person we love on our side, to be always close!

Nope, I'm almost never wishy washy. It took me 30+ years to change my hairstyle, and now that I found one I like, I may not change it again for 30+ years. :D

hahaha!! I feel that way too. I don't understand why some people feel that way and that includes me. Now that it is summer, I wish it is winter because of the heat of the sun. I am so uncomfortable specially if I will be working outside. I'm sure when winter comes, I would wish it is summertime because I hate to be in the cold. I really don't understand why it is like that.

Hi missy! I think that you are perfectly normal, at least to me you are! I am never happy no matter what I am doing either! I am the same way about everything too! If I am doing something I want to be doing something else! If I am out I want to be at home. If I am home I want to be out! I can never make up my mind about anything so I know exactly what you mean!

well at least you are human and not alien!

Sweetie, it's called being Human. We seem to think that the grass is always greener on the other side, and gust what ****** there's weeds. Take care Snow

Well, you and I are only human. Who can claim being satisfied with their life fully?

maybe you only need to get focused...

I have that problem too and that is our nature so you just don't want to think about just try to live your life as it is and don't be greedy and you should know that you make every thing for a reason for example you go to work to make money and you stay home to rest so don't think on it as a problem you have

Maybe most of us experience this,of course,me too!But not get bored very much.I have learned to tell myself that the current state would be the past state in a second and never comes back,so why not enjoy them?

They say man is a fool; wanting what is not. I am the exact same way! When I experience something I complain about it, and wish I was experiencing the opposite, and when I experience the opposite, I wish I was experiencing the initial thing! I tend to be a happy person too though (at least most of the time!). I think it's just human nature to want what you don't or can't have.