Love or Attraction???

Hi satylot, I am sorry for your heartache over your lost friendship with this young lady. I have a question? Why did the friendship end? You two seemed to be very close, if you trusted each other enough to share your problems. You don't to that with just any friend, but a close friend you do. So, what happened? When you see her in public and she sees you, but doesn't acknowledge your presence, it would seem that she doesn't want to resume the relationship, romantically or platonically. I know that must hurt, but you must face this fact. You may have been in love with her the entire time you were being "just friends." Now that you may have lost her forever, it is tearing your insides up. You must find a way to end this torture to yourself. I say, try to speak with her. First, to try to mend the releationship from the forelong problem. Then, see where her head is about becoming more than just friends. Good luck

Wow, It looks like you have feelings for this girl. The best thing to do in this situation, in my opinion, would just be to stay calm. If you are feeling this way about her there is no reason to work yourself up over the feelings even though I know that they might be intense right now. The best thing to do is to accept her as a friend until the situation changes. She may continue to be close with the boy, or she may not. All you have to do is make sure that you take care of yourself until the day comes when you have your chance. Make sure you are happy and that you are the best that you can be and if you feel that your can't be happy without her the best thing to do would be to tell her. You never know, she may not like her current situation with the boy.