whom you would marry?

@zhouxi (1752)
China
July 24, 2010 8:31pm CST
we all wish couples love each other.in fact,it's could n't perfect in really life.if you want marry,would you choose the person you love or the person loves you?this is an old debate.share your opinion please!
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Jul 10
This is an easy choice for me. I will choose to marry to someone who loves me even if I don't love him. I can't stand he doesn't love me. This hopeless love doesn't work and won't have a future. It is better to stop rather than feeling worse in the future. Perhaps I don't love him now, but time will change many things. I will love him at the end since he loves me. People have emotions. You will feel something when someone loves you deeply. I love China
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Jul 10
Thanks for the best response.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
1 Aug 10
• China
13 Oct 10
IF i could not come across a person whom i love and he love me at the same time ,i would choose the one i love ,at least i would be more happy this way . i just can't image sleeping with a man whom i don't love ,it's horrible
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
13 Oct 10
yes. may be if he is good man,you may love him soon.
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
i would choose the person that loves me bcs i would also love him back^^ with time for sure bcs if he loves me it means he gives me care and love so is impossible that i dont love him back^^ if i choose the person i love that person might not love me back so i dont want to get hurt and suffer but if i chose someone that loves me i would be honest and say i give you a chance to be with me but i still dont feel the same way you do but im sure i will^^ honesty is always the best^^
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
8 Aug 10
you are straight woman.good luck!
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
26 Jul 10
Mmmm ... interesting question. I found by myself that there is a possibility to have both things in one relationship. I'm not sure how long that will be, but i hope it will be that way forever. So i'd marry my present boyfriend. We had a lot of things to fight for together and this things was successfully defeated and now i think there is nothing what can make us breakup. I love him more than always and i can see it's the same with him. Sometimes we still have bad moments, but it's only our choice how to deal with that. If we want to be together, as we really want, we will work with our bad moments as team, not each of us to fight for himself. I think that's the key.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
8 Aug 10
yes,love can change many things.if we love eachother we can conquer many difficulties.
@will_win (222)
• India
29 Jul 10
I would choose the one who loves me,you know there is saying "LOVE THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU,NOT THE ONE WHOM YOU LOVE".Its better to marry with him.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
8 Aug 10
many girls would like choose the answer just like you choose.
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I would like to marry a men who will complete my whole life
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
8 Oct 10
best wishes....
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
26 Jul 10
zhouxi, I really have to ask this which is a question to your question - just what is your prerogative here? What is your choice of your significant other? This is a discussion and as such I think it would really to hear yours first before I give you mine. Thank you and hope to hear from you.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
i think i would choose the person who loves me more than himself.in addition i could also accept him from every aspects .
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
25 Jul 10
Well of course I would want the person I love to be the same one who loves me, but answering the question I will choose the person who loves me. I cannot make someone love me, but I'm sure I can learn to/slowly fall in love with a person who loves me. if that makes sense. lol.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
i think you should and you can !good luck!
@chazzief (237)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 10
Well, I have no experienve in love so far, but personally, I will marry a person that I love, whom love me more that I do~ there has to be love between each other..
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
good lucy!you will meet her(him).
@hushi22 (4928)
25 Jul 10
That would definitely be the one I love. =)
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
25 Jul 10
if he doesn't love you so much compare to the one love you,you also choose the one you love?
@rose005 (254)
• India
26 Jul 10
If the person whom I love loves me as I do than I would definitely marry with him but if he don't than I have to marry with who loves me.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
good idea!
@vikkitita (194)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
I would marry the person who loves me the same way as I love him. A good marriage should not be a one-way relationship. When you love each other on the same level, you care for each other on the same level too. That way you both can be happy and work together to making your marriage work and stronger
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
i'm agree with you!all of us wish that!
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
25 Jul 10
Of course I would marry the person i love unless that person does not love me back. What would be the use? And if i don't love the person that loves me, i probably wouldn't marry that person either even though as one responders pointed out that you can learn to love the person. What if you don't learn to love the person? Perhaps if one loves a person that does not love one back and has a person that loves you and you don't love that person, one should not marry either and continue looking.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
yes,god had prepared a right person for us and waiting for us somewhere.
26 Jul 10
I will marry the people i love and he love me.I think there is a people who love me and i love him.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Aug 10
right.