@vikkitita on myLot

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 17 Aug 10

Well, I wrote a discussion earlier about how my boyfriend is leaving for college about four hours north of where we live now. And how his choices for the relationship we have together is to break up for a short time until we can...

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vikkitita "They say if you love someone, then set it free. If it comes back to you, then in the end it was meant to be"... so as the song goes. True enough. The only way to test if he really loves you, or if the real reason for his breaking up with you is just...

17 Aug 10

dustin746 @dustin746 (10) • United States 16 Aug 10

I have 2 boxers and hey are very friendly and nice.What kind of dog do you have?What is it's personality?Would you rather have a cat than a dog?

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vikkitita Mine is a labrador retriever. He is as alpha male dog which is very rare for a labrador. He likes to rule over all the other dogs in the neighborhood. Every time we take him for a walk in the neighborhood, all the dogs will start barking. The entire...

17 Aug 10

dudsdoojaxi1 @dudsdoojaxi1 (166) • Philippines 16 Aug 10

I have a hard time with someone because he likes to buy stuff from pawnshop or thrift store and consider it as an asset. Sometimes he pays it in installments. After a few weeks the stuff gets worthless but he doesn't care because...

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vikkitita Well, not everything that you buy in thrift stores, pawnshops and garage sales are low in quality and worthless. You may also be able to find some good quality stuff at less cost. The subject must have experienced that, and found joy and satisfaction in having...

17 Aug 10

jackymcraph @jackymcraph (54) • Philippines 16 Aug 10

So many questions go unanswered in one's life-time. Unending search for answer to questions is what characterizes life in general. Love, looks like the most commonly used word in human relations but for the two decades since i...

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what is love

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vikkitita Many people wonder just where the line changes from like to love. Alternatively, some people may confuse lust with love. True love is an emotion that one will feel toward another - and that is the strongest emotion a person can have. Lust is a feeling in...

16 Aug 10

JoieGahum @JOIEMARVIC (2335) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

Help. How can I stop thinking about a person if he's stuck in my head. To thoe who have participated in my earlier discussions, this is about my ex- boyfriend from 5 years back who found me and wanted to have me back in his life....

long distance relationship

love

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vikkitita Hi Joiemarvic! Before I decided to respond to this post, I first went to read your past post with regards this same ex bf so that I can have at least a background. As I understand, after you broke up with your bf 5 yrs ago, you got reconnected via fb which...

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Turingskie @Turingskie (387) • Philippines 10 Aug 10

I'm with my best-friend last night we were not able to see couple of months before and i know that she was still single suddenly i was shocked that she have a boyfriend then she tell me how he meets that guy.she said that she...

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vikkitita Gee, that's amazing! Was it a mere case of deja vu or soul mate? Wow! That's strange. I never thought it to be real until now. Did your friend really see vividly her now boyfriend's face in her dreams?

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trishasantos @trishasantos (1297) • Philippines 10 Aug 10

I am currently watching My Neighbor Totoro. So there is this kid that shared his umbrella to the two characters, Mei and Satsuki. Well actually he lend it to them. Anyway, I totally remembered that I did share an umbrella before,...

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vikkitita Of course, I'll be willing to share my umbrella with a complete stranger, if necessary BUT..... I would also consider carefully choosing whom I share my umbrella with. It also pays to be vigilant these days. In these days when hooligans dressed in doves-skin...

10 Aug 10

sincerelyne @sincerelyne (156) • Philippines 10 Aug 10

falling in love is always a good feeling,its always a sun shine, it's an emotion that is so hard to explain. it inspires and make happy, but what if it will start hurting? would you still keep it or let it go?

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vikkitita Any relationship is not "a bed of roses". Just like there are thorns in a rose, you should also expect that in any relationship, there will also be challenges. Challenges that may hurt you. But how you overcome those challenges is what will make your...

10 Aug 10

laniekins @laniekins (4579) • Philippines 10 Aug 10

Hey guys, I haven't visit Mylot yesterday (Monday) cause I'm a bit busy outside paying for contribution. I don't know if you call this prank call or she was just given a wrong number, yesterday morning, a girl called our office...

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vikkitita ...And please don't hate and condemn the girl, my dear. She is the victim here of gallivanting men who takes advantage of women's innocence and weaknesses.

10 Aug 10

laniekins @laniekins (4579) • Philippines 10 Aug 10

Hey guys, I haven't visit Mylot yesterday (Monday) cause I'm a bit busy outside paying for contribution. I don't know if you call this prank call or she was just given a wrong number, yesterday morning, a girl called our office...

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vikkitita Hello dear. I think it was just an honest mistake. She was not any prankster at all, I supposed. It was just a coincidence that the name of the person she was looking for has the same name as that of your boss'. Haha, what a coincidence. I could just imagine...

10 Aug 10

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dianajen @dianajen (77) 9 Aug 10

How do you advise a friend to stop having relationship with someone who is married and is aware of it. I been advising that friend to stop since that person his/her lover is his/her first love. They are about a year and a half...

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vikkitita Thank you for appreciating my response dianajen. You can send this link to your friend so she may also be able to read this. I hope she'll come to her senses soon. She will realize later that she indeed will never have happiness and a good future with a...

10 Aug 10

vikkitita @vikkitita (194) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

Yes, you've read it right. Crazy, isn't it? When other wives are complaining about their husbands having an affair with other women, here I am wanting my husband to try to have an affair with another woman. Weird?... yes, I think...

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vikkitita Misinterpreted by whom bystander? By my husband? I understand your concern bystander. Thanks. I appreciate that. But if you have read my answers to comments #40 and #46, you would perhaps get a better bird's eye view of where I'm coming from. Nothing of what I...

10 Aug 10

dianajen @dianajen (77) 9 Aug 10

How do you advise a friend to stop having relationship with someone who is married and is aware of it. I been advising that friend to stop since that person his/her lover is his/her first love. They are about a year and a half...

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vikkitita Hi dianajen. I know exactly how you feel about your friend. I see you in my best friend and I see myself in your best friend's shoes. I have been into that same situation as your best friend's before. I was madly and deeply in love with a married man too...

9 Aug 10

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april_02 @april_02 (82) • Philippines 8 Aug 10

I have a guy friend for three years now.He is my officemate & I fell in love with him from the start. This feeling keeps on bothering me and it came into a point that I confronted him & told him that I love him. But he rejected me...

love

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vikkitita Yes my dear jennyze. Men love challenges. If you chase them, they ran away because they feel that you're so easy to get and they are not in any way challenged. But if you stop chasing them and focus your attention on somebody else, they will be the one now to...

9 Aug 10

TikaTalk @TikaTalk (89) • United States 8 Aug 10

I am so stoked cuz my baby is gonna be 9 this Wednesday. I am so proud of her. She ia a straight A student going to the 4th grade. She got almost all 100% on all her modules on the state test and tested into the gifted program. I...

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vikkitita Congratulations! You are so blessed to have such an intellectually and emotionally gifted child. I would not say you are "lucky" because having such kind of child did not just happen by luck. It was also a result of your love, care and support, I...

8 Aug 10

april_02 @april_02 (82) • Philippines 8 Aug 10

I have a guy friend for three years now.He is my officemate & I fell in love with him from the start. This feeling keeps on bothering me and it came into a point that I confronted him & told him that I love him. But he rejected me...

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vikkitita Now that the guy knows your feelings and he has blatantly told you that he cannot reciprocate your feelings, wouldn't it be that he will already avoid you? Wouldn't he feel awkward talking or getting in any way close to you under such circumstances? If I were...

8 Aug 10

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