Just.. Heartbroken :(

it's better to let him go if he want space in you relationship and he will know your value in his life as a partner as well as you done your part to have strong relationship with him and if you in love with each other sooner or later he will back into your arms again

Hi spazz, love becomes deeper when the lovers are separated for the time being. It's not heartbreaking but heart joining incident. Long live your love.

Long distance relationship is really very hard. 4 hours drive from where you are living now isn't that much far. You two can still find time to see each other at least ones a week or so. Does breaking up really the solution for this or is there other issues? I haven't read the post you did about your bf leaving..sorry about that. But anyways, I think if you believe in God the only advice I can give you is pray. Prayer is very much powerful in anything in life. I pray all the time that I may have a much more stronger relationship with my bf despite the distance (he's in another continent by the way).If you have faith in yourself, your boyfriend and faith in your relationship then I guess if God permits, you will still end up with him even if you let him go now. Try to talk things out with him..he might agree with long distance relationship. Have a good day

"They say if you love someone, then set it free. If it comes back to you, then in the end it was meant to be"... so as the song goes. True enough. The only way to test if he really loves you, or if the real reason for his breaking up with you is just temporarily prioritizing his college studies, is to let him go. It may be painful, yes. But I'd rather take that pain now, than blindly forcing something on someone who's no longer in love with me after all. Was that college studies the real reason?....or is it just an excuse?...of course, he wouldn't say. He wouldn't probably be man enough to tell you that. Let him go...set him free... if he comes back to you, as he promised, then it will be a bliss. You've found a man who truly loves you. But if he don't, then he's not worth your love. Well, at least you were able to know it earlier and can still have time to pick up those broken pieces with lesser pain. Just don't expect too much. It will save you from more pain. Give yourself a space. Protect your feelings... you're emotions. You'll be able to cope up and move on faster if things didn't turn out the way you've expected.

LOVE for each other is not enough... you also have to TRUST the one you love... just enjoy yourself being apart from him... but don't forget that you also have him... :)