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kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5469) • Canada 28 Oct 10

Over the years I've tried numerous times to quit smoking and have always failed. I've gone seasons without smoking, only to have something trigger massive stress and start all over again. I find that I'm smoking more and more...

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davenhearst We all know the health risks of smoking and most of us know that kicking the habit is the single biggest improvement to health a smoker can make. But that doesn't make it any easier to kick the habit. Whether you're a teen smoker or a lifetime pack-a-day...

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yspmyl @yspmyl (3435) • Malaysia 19 Oct 10

Do you know what is the most important part of the body. My mom used to as me this question. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said to mom is ears. But she said "No" because many people...

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davenhearst For me, heart still have that slot...mot important part...heart has this storage, all emotions, feelings, desire and even hatred is ever seen inside of it. You cannot easily give a shoulder to someone you never know, being him/her close to your heart, will be...

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momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3270) • United States 19 Oct 10

I know this question will get a great discussion going. Please as always no links within your post or comment. To me what is the meaning of life, I think life has many meanings. One thing I feel as I have gotten older is you...

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davenhearst For me the true meaning of life is to find peace with God. According to me the point of life is happiness, we all are trying to create happiness for ourselves in our every motive, be it earning money or frame or marrying, either a person committing suicide is...

19 Oct 10

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 17 Oct 10

What do you think make English language more important than any other languages? Why do we have to learn it in schools? Even myself started to talk a little English to my kid. The usual response would be "Mommy why do I have to...

english language

importance of english

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davenhearst English language is important because it is spoken throughout the world. In every country, schools teach their children English because the teachers know it can be useful for the children in their life. Frankly speaking, it is highly essential to know the...

17 Oct 10

davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 8 Oct 10

Many of us hold money in high regard. Some of us worship and covet it, though I do neither. Why is money really important? Forgive me for stating the obvious, but money is a means to an end. We need money to get things that we...

money

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davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Stress! The word itself is very stressful to pronounce. When which we can't swim out but only drown. Similarly like the whirlpool which can take the life of the person. There are many ways to capsize this stress and move on with...

stress

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davenhearst thanks for the comment you are right that we should try our best to cope up with it and that's only we can do to fix it.Pray for God that we will give us strength to change the things we can, the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, and the wisdom...

7 Oct 10

davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Stress! The word itself is very stressful to pronounce. When which we can't swim out but only drown. Similarly like the whirlpool which can take the life of the person. There are many ways to capsize this stress and move on with...

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davenhearst thanks for the comment...your suggestion is a unique technique in coping up stress. It can help also to be physically and mentally fit for us...

7 Oct 10

davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Stress! The word itself is very stressful to pronounce. When which we can't swim out but only drown. Similarly like the whirlpool which can take the life of the person. There are many ways to capsize this stress and move on with...

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davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

I always wonder how guys classify girls into main categories: Girls that are good for just one night stand and the girls for the long term serious relationship. Like based on what do they make up their minds and judge the girl?...

one night stand

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davenhearst hi anurag3786, thank for the comment maybe you're right that if we choose to love a person we should know them better in enough time to know who really they are... maybe one night stand is just satisfaction of oneself only..

6 Oct 10

davenhearst @davenhearst (327) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

I always wonder how guys classify girls into main categories: Girls that are good for just one night stand and the girls for the long term serious relationship. Like based on what do they make up their minds and judge the girl?...

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figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

Do you find it easy forgiving a friend who has offended you greatly? I had this friend back in my college days who moved with his family to the place where I was studying for a college degree. Since I had been in the school for a...

forgiveness

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davenhearst Forgiveness is commitment to change. It can be difficult and it can take time. One step is to recognize the importance of forgiveness and it's meaning in your life. Next, reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how this has affected your...

6 Oct 10

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 5 Oct 10

Love what you are doing. How can you always love what you are doing? How can we make ourselves enjoy the things we are doing? I am listing all the things that will happen or the things I would be getting if I continue to do...

doing the things we love

love what we are doing

loving the things we do

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davenhearst To do something well you have to like it. That idea is not exactly novel. We've got it down to four words. " Do what you love." Life is too short. In the new world, we don't have to love everything that we do, but we need to find happiness and meaning in most...

6 Oct 10

xtmlove @xtmlove (402) • China 5 Oct 10

As we known, most of lovers will have quarrel with each other more or less. But the ways that people choose to deal with them are differ. Some people choose to accommodate their partners, while some choose to forget them. If you...

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davenhearst It takes a lot to make a relationship to be really strong has to go through a lot of tests. Not all the days of togetherness are rosy for both the partners in love. Jealousy, tension, quarrel, fights all are part and parcel of it and has to be handled with...

6 Oct 10

rifnee @rifnee (1713) • Indonesia 5 Oct 10

He left me in the destruction of life on earth .. may even continue into the after life. Just because a trivial mistake and almost all outside my control. I hated and shunned friends. Families broken home. Lecture...

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davenhearst Ob course God love us... God give us some trials to help us to be strength in all aspect of our life. But if you open your heart you will feel that God is always with us. God answer your prayer not in the way you want maybe in another way He knows what is best...

5 Oct 10

stellar126 @stellar126 (278) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

I am so frustrated and angry with my immediate supervisor. She wants to get all the credit, she doesn't do her job, and when she does it, she's not really very good at it. She talks down on people and her ego is the size of a...

difficult boss

incompetent boss

work

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davenhearst Having been a bad boss can really cause a lot of tensions and frustrations. Even so, even you like it or not, there's a reason for your boss position, no matter how unreasonable this may look to you. When the boss is incompetent, it is easy that the whole team...

1 Oct 10

JKSophie @JKSophie (48) • Philippines 1 Oct 10

There are people who believe that they need to know each other for a long time before they commit in marriage. There are others who don't really care how long they've known each other, as long as they're in love, happy, and see...

long engagement

lovers

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davenhearst I believe in long term engagement as I was experienced that me and my hubby have 5 years relationship before marriage. To have enough time to plan and save money for the preparation of the marriage. More planning time can have additional benefits, it allows...

1 Oct 10

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 29 Sep 10

Are you an angry individual? Did you find yourself unable to control your angry outburst regardless of your resolve? I have been dealing with anger outburst lately. I tried many options just to stay calm but every time i saw...

anger

anger management

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davenhearst Anger is one of the most common and destructive delusions, and it afflicts our mind almost everyday. to solve the problems of anger we first need to recognize the anger within our mind, acknowledge how it harms both our self and others, and appreciate the...

1 Oct 10

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charmaine36 @charmaine36 (145) • Jamaica 30 Sep 10

My best friend is feeling very frustrated, there's this guy at her workplace that just won't take no for an answer. He thinks she's just being shy and is determined to get her to come out of her shell and to start going out with...

relationship

saying no

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davenhearst Your friend better change her attitudes toward that guy, maybe she been making the guy feel home around her, this time let it show all over that she is NOT INTERESTED with that guy. Don't use abusive language because guys can be dangerous. You never can tell....

1 Oct 10

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 30 Sep 10

Why is it that some states say it is OK to text and drive? Others say that only teenagers must refrain from texting and driving at the same time. Still other states indicate no texting and driving at the same time for all people....

driving

teenagers

texting

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davenhearst To my knowledge, a number of states have banned that messaging while driving. I think it is a good idea. It should be banned, because texting teens not only teens but even some other parents and people are putting their lives and other innocent lives in danger...

30 Sep 10

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