davenhearst

@davenhearst (327)

Philippines • Age 40

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How do I quit smoking for good?

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5453) • Canada 28 Oct 10

Over the years I've tried numerous times to quit smoking and have always failed. I've gone seasons without smoking, only to have something trigger massive stress and start all over again. I find that I'm smoking more and more...

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davenhearst We all know the health risks of smoking and most of us know that kicking the habit is the single biggest improvement to health a smoker can make. But that doesn't make it any easier to kick the habit. Whether you're a teen smoker or a lifetime pack-a-day...

29 Oct 10

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Most Important Part of the Body

yspmyl @yspmyl (3435) • Malaysia 19 Oct 10

Do you know what is the most important part of the body. My mom used to as me this question. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said to mom is ears. But she said "No" because many people...

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davenhearst For me, heart still have that slot...mot important part...heart has this storage, all emotions, feelings, desire and even hatred is ever seen inside of it. You cannot easily give a shoulder to someone you never know, being him/her close to your heart, will be...

20 Oct 10

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Why English language is important?

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 17 Oct 10

What do you think make English language more important than any other languages? Why do we have to learn it in schools? Even myself started to talk a little English to my kid. The usual response would be "Mommy why do I have to...

english language

importance of english

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davenhearst English language is important because it is spoken throughout the world. In every country, schools teach their children English because the teachers know it can be useful for the children in their life. Frankly speaking, it is highly essential to know the...

17 Oct 10

hard forgiving someone

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

Do you find it easy forgiving a friend who has offended you greatly? I had this friend back in my college days who moved with his family to the place where I was studying for a college degree. Since I had been in the school for a...

forgiveness

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davenhearst Forgiveness is commitment to change. It can be difficult and it can take time. One step is to recognize the importance of forgiveness and it's meaning in your life. Next, reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how this has affected your...

6 Oct 10

How can we always love what we are doing?

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 5 Oct 10

Love what you are doing. How can you always love what you are doing? How can we make ourselves enjoy the things we are doing? I am listing all the things that will happen or the things I would be getting if I continue to do...

doing the things we love

love what we are doing

loving the things we do

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davenhearst To do something well you have to like it. That idea is not exactly novel. We've got it down to four words. " Do what you love." Life is too short. In the new world, we don't have to love everything that we do, but we need to find happiness and meaning in most...

6 Oct 10

Do you have any quarrel with your partner ? ? ?

xtmlove @xtmlove (402) • China 5 Oct 10

As we known, most of lovers will have quarrel with each other more or less. But the ways that people choose to deal with them are differ. Some people choose to accommodate their partners, while some choose to forget them. If you...

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davenhearst It takes a lot to make a relationship to be really strong has to go through a lot of tests. Not all the days of togetherness are rosy for both the partners in love. Jealousy, tension, quarrel, fights all are part and parcel of it and has to be handled with...

6 Oct 10

Does God love me?

rifnee @rifnee (1713) • Indonesia 5 Oct 10

He left me in the destruction of life on earth .. may even continue into the after life. Just because a trivial mistake and almost all outside my control. I hated and shunned friends. Families broken home. Lecture...

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davenhearst Ob course God love us... God give us some trials to help us to be strength in all aspect of our life. But if you open your heart you will feel that God is always with us. God answer your prayer not in the way you want maybe in another way He knows what is best...

5 Oct 10

How do you manage to work for an incompetent boss?

stellar126 @stellar126 (278) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

I am so frustrated and angry with my immediate supervisor. She wants to get all the credit, she doesn't do her job, and when she does it, she's not really very good at it. She talks down on people and her ego is the size of a...

difficult boss

incompetent boss

work

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davenhearst Having been a bad boss can really cause a lot of tensions and frustrations. Even so, even you like it or not, there's a reason for your boss position, no matter how unreasonable this may look to you. When the boss is incompetent, it is easy that the whole team...

1 Oct 10

Do you believe in long engagement?

JKSophie @JKSophie (48) • Philippines 1 Oct 10

There are people who believe that they need to know each other for a long time before they commit in marriage. There are others who don't really care how long they've known each other, as long as they're in love, happy, and see...

long engagement

lovers

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davenhearst I believe in long term engagement as I was experienced that me and my hubby have 5 years relationship before marriage. To have enough time to plan and save money for the preparation of the marriage. More planning time can have additional benefits, it allows...

1 Oct 10

anger management

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 29 Sep 10

Are you an angry individual? Did you find yourself unable to control your angry outburst regardless of your resolve? I have been dealing with anger outburst lately. I tried many options just to stay calm but every time i saw...

anger

anger management

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davenhearst Anger is one of the most common and destructive delusions, and it afflicts our mind almost everyday. to solve the problems of anger we first need to recognize the anger within our mind, acknowledge how it harms both our self and others, and appreciate the...

1 Oct 10

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How do you get a persistent suitor to see that you're not interested?

charmaine36 @charmaine36 (145) • Jamaica 30 Sep 10

My best friend is feeling very frustrated, there's this guy at her workplace that just won't take no for an answer. He thinks she's just being shy and is determined to get her to come out of her shell and to start going out with...

relationship

saying no

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davenhearst Your friend better change her attitudes toward that guy, maybe she been making the guy feel home around her, this time let it show all over that she is NOT INTERESTED with that guy. Don't use abusive language because guys can be dangerous. You never can tell....

1 Oct 10

Texting while driving--Some state are OK with it. But...

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 30 Sep 10

Why is it that some states say it is OK to text and drive? Others say that only teenagers must refrain from texting and driving at the same time. Still other states indicate no texting and driving at the same time for all people....

driving

teenagers

texting

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davenhearst To my knowledge, a number of states have banned that messaging while driving. I think it is a good idea. It should be banned, because texting teens not only teens but even some other parents and people are putting their lives and other innocent lives in danger...

30 Sep 10

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i am happy because................

jerrian44 @jerrian44 (19) • Netherlands 30 Sep 10

After spending a few days being a miserablle cow, i have decided to start a happy thread. I am happy because 1) Central heating in our house works well 2. i have a small beautiful family 3. our freezer is massive and i...

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davenhearst There are so many other reasons why we should be happy. This are the things that inspire me to be happy in life. I look forward to each new day I have inner strength I see things in a more positive light I am fun to be around I like to contribute to...

30 Sep 10

Do you wish to help your parents too?

Jhordie @Jhordie (5115) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

I am now here in a foreign land... though having my vacation at first but now tryin my luck as well especially that I need to help my parents too. I was not born with a silver spoon... but my parents strived hard just to give me...

love for parents

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davenhearst Since when we are a child our parents guide and take care us until we grow up. Our parents give us better life and education to secure our future. As I remember like you we are not born in a silver spoon as I remember when I was in college my mother take extra...

30 Sep 10

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Career, love or both?

annemellanie @annemellanie (74) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

Choosing a career over love is an extremely personal choice and individual decision. Careers and love fulfill us in different but important ways. Having a solid career gives us a sense of accomplishment and self worth while LOVE,...

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davenhearst The choice between having a career or making time for love is an extremely personal and individual decision. There are many factors which can affect your choice, and there are many people who have discovered how to achieve a healthy work life balance that...

30 Sep 10

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can i love a married man who is my boss? should i tell him my feeling?

loralovera @loralovera (15) • China 29 Sep 10

He is my boss of our Headquater in another country. I met him at the first time 2 weeks ago. We got along with each other several days, i found he is a charming gentalman, handsome, humour, polite... I can't help myself to fall in...

love

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davenhearst As a women you need to be aware that married man are getting their feet stuck into thick quick sands. Very likely their relationship will end going no where. Most men will not leave their wives for their new lover. Most men will live the adventure to its...

30 Sep 10

Secrets to a long life

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

with the rapid advances in the biological sciences, don't you think we should be able to prolong life, say by several hundred years very soon?

having a long life

living a long life

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davenhearst It is the desire of the most, if not all, people to have a happy and long life. many think it is fable to be actually able to extend our life somehow. Well, it is not.. For my opinion there are five tips that if done will allow for not only a longer life but...

28 Sep 10

Is it necessary of having an affair in school days or in college ????

ashutoshs8 @ashutoshs8 (373) • India 28 Sep 10

Truly saying friends I had a dream of having girlfriends and having affairs. And now not totally but i have reached what i have wanted. Sometimes people say that yes we should have an affair as soon as possible so that we can...

love

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davenhearst Having an affair to someone have no time when it will start, in my opinion it is not necessary to have an affair in school days because I believe that they have a right time for that, in the right place and in the right person. We should prioritize first our...

28 Sep 10

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